S/o: are you attractive to the popular guys? Like jocks and stuff?

Are you attractive to the fun guys?

  • Yes

    Votes: 9 56.3%

  • No

    Votes: 7 43.8%
  • Total voters
    16
  • Poll closed .
Yes and no. Yes they attracted to me. No they don't really like me and I don't like them. We're both self-entitled arrogant. And the only egos I stroke are intellectual. They dont listen, I don't listen. They think I'm a *****, and I think they're a$$holes. They know I'm a lot of work and I'mma be damned if I put up and bs for a dude just because other silly chicks are pressed on them. We both want to control, power struggle. We both want to win--I don't lose. :look:

I'm not compatible with Mr. Popular. He's usually just my ace or friend. :lol:
 
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NO. Maybe to look at, but not for relationship (or even fun).

I still find fun guys that aren't total jocks:lol:
 
lol, the popular guys? Is for this high schoolers? ;-)

i have found myself attracted to the guys who are more charismatic and like to party... are more outgoing. And usually those guys are atttractive. They are attracted to me as well. BUT, I don't think any of the ones I've come across who fit that bill are the types that are good for long term relationships. I don't take them seriously. I prefer to be the Center of Attention. Not him.
 
Popular guys? Yes, my first bf was "popular" and I have a "popular" ex. It can be annoying because people keep telling you about your relationship...

Jocks? Never dated one. Not my thing, at least I don't think it is.
 
LivingDol1 said:
lol, the popular guys? Is for this high schoolers? ;-)

i have found myself attracted to the guys who are more charismatic and like to party... are more outgoing. And usually those guys are atttractive. They are attracted to me as well. BUT, I don't think any of the ones I've come across who fit that bill are the types that are good for long term relationships. I don't take them seriously. I prefer to be the Center of Attention. Not him.
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lmao! Actually it was in high school and at university. A grown man trying to be popular is disturbing.
 
As friends, yes, because I let others talk about themselves and act encouraging and interested. :look:

As lovers, no.
 
I used to be. My first bf was a popular guy. I hated that everyone knew him and he always had to be ”on.” :nono: i'm not interested in that type of guy anymore.
 
i keep them in the friend zone (with no benefits) or i ditch them. they usually have lil peens or ejaculate quickly, anyhow:look: i don't kiss arses or stroke egos but you betta do it for me:lachen:
 
I have been to one or two in my prime, but I was unable to stay in the relationship. They were quite frankly, a handful for me. I found myself having to be someone I wasn't in order to fit in with them and their crowd.

I like the betas, the off the beaten path dudes. They're quiet but deep. Married to a beta now. Funny, now that I am comfortable with me and the way I am, I seem to be attracting the "popular" kind again. DH gets comments all the time from his more outgoing friends about how lucky he is. But if you knew my DH, you'd know I'm the lucky one.

Popular guys seem fun, but can be alot of work if they don't fit with who you are. If you're young and all you want is to "tame a dragon", by all means, have fun. Become "that girl" who can pull all the guys. I think there are a ton of threads on how to become that on this forum.

If you're looking for something more permanent, be you. Who knows, that might be what the "popular" guy is looking for:yep:
 
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Yes, they like what they see. However, we rarely have anything in common so it usually doesn't last long.
 
Not usually. I usually got the nerds, geeks, intellectuals, artists, eccentrics and musicians. I have had one jock (who eventually became pro ) who was attracted to me but he was too young (my age but I was into older men) and dumb-jockish enough to turn me off of that gorgeous face and body. I hooked him up with my gf. She later reported that he was a disappointment in the sack. Looks can really be deceiving. I dated enough models to attest to that.

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Idk about those type of guys but i do tend to attract guys who are buff...workout and/or personal trainers. Its weird because I always look at them like they probably don't find me to be their type but now its not surprising anymore when they approach me or show some sort of interest lol
 
Middle, why not focus on the guys that are attracted to you instead of trying to attract the jock types? (just going off what you said in the other thread)
 
I'm attracted to tall not slender but not all muscles and brainy.

I married a fun muscle bound jock. Not sure what happened? He was the first of his type I ever dated. DH is very intelligent but his interest revolve largely around sports and the great outdoors (hiking, mountain climbing, water sports, anything with impending doom). He will participate in the things i like to do....theatre, the arts, etc but he is most at home in the wilderness conquering something.
 
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