TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
I was reading another thread and someone mentioned the impact of religion on relationships and it got me thinking....
How important is it.... especially in the black community?
Let me start off by clarifying that I am a Southern Girl, born and raised in the South and your religion is something you wear like a badge in the south. So much so that it has definitely deterred me from relationships.
At the age of 30, I really struck out on my own and realized that I just didn't fit the mold of traditional religion. Rather, I am more of an open minded, higher power, love mother earth, meditation type of girl... this is definitely a turn off for black men. (at least Southern Ones). Pair that with my raw foods eating habits and love of nature and hiking, and you have someone who has put herself in the category of "find you a white boy..."
So.... outside of relocating (I HATE the South) which is not an option for me at this time, my options are limited?
Who else has run into similar issues or the other way around?
Do you find that your LOVE of religion has created dating challenges for you (i.e. "equally yoked" mentality, abstinence, etc.)
Or do you find that your seemingly non-traditional religious practices or beliefs have created issues in the dating world?
How important is it.... especially in the black community?
Let me start off by clarifying that I am a Southern Girl, born and raised in the South and your religion is something you wear like a badge in the south. So much so that it has definitely deterred me from relationships.
At the age of 30, I really struck out on my own and realized that I just didn't fit the mold of traditional religion. Rather, I am more of an open minded, higher power, love mother earth, meditation type of girl... this is definitely a turn off for black men. (at least Southern Ones). Pair that with my raw foods eating habits and love of nature and hiking, and you have someone who has put herself in the category of "find you a white boy..."
So.... outside of relocating (I HATE the South) which is not an option for me at this time, my options are limited?
Who else has run into similar issues or the other way around?
Do you find that your LOVE of religion has created dating challenges for you (i.e. "equally yoked" mentality, abstinence, etc.)
Or do you find that your seemingly non-traditional religious practices or beliefs have created issues in the dating world?