relaxed relasps....

[silvergirl]

ok, so im looking through some pics , see soooo many beautiful relaxed head, i think im having a relaspe. i really.. really want to get a relaxer

,, i just like wearnin my hair out striaght more often than not. but i like the curls.. one thing i wont do is get a texturizer, bacause most ppl i know end up regretin it.. i dont know what to do!!

my hair has never grown so much since i stopped relaxing an i dont want to take that chance an miss up the growth i got.. however IF i do go back i dont think id relax more than every 10 months or so...

am i doing the right thng, or am i going to regret this bigtime????...

I need help lol

 

[jainygirl]

You've been transitioning awhile and been doing a great job....i say try to ride out the temptation and if all else fails, visit a dominican salon for a blowout to treat your momentary relaxed hair fixation

good luck and HHG -- jainygirl

 

[inthepink]

Hmm, I kinda know how you feel. I see my old relaxed pics and others relaxed pics and I do miss it...my long swinging hair that I will never have with curly hair.

So, I think you just really need to think about what you want. If you like your hair straight more than you think you'll like it curly, then maybe it's best to relax. Relaxing every 10 months isn't so bad...what will you do in between with the new growth? Will that inhibit wearing your hair straight?

Have you experimented with curly hair styles to see if you would like wearing your hair that way? I thik curly hair is starting to be more accepted than before and I am starting to see it as just as beautiful as straight hair.

 

[Autumn]

I agree with Jainygirl. Or maybe you can aslo try a warm flat iron or mild press to help show off your new length

 

[OnceUponAtime]

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jainygirl said:
You've been transitioning awhile and been doing a great job....i say try to ride out the temptation and if all else fails, visit a dominican salon for a blowout to treat your momentary relaxed hair fixation

good luck and HHG -- jainygirl

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ITA
I'm so impressed with your progress. Your hair is beautiful.