Okay, don't know where to start really. First off I want to say that I am natural about 95% natural. My last relaxer was about Thanksgiving time last year. I have grown my hair out to sl probably, maybe longer.. okay to be honest i don't know how long it is really, but when i do strech it, i got a good amout of length, that touches my shoulders. Last year my hair was very damaged, from relaxers, blowdrying (just typing that makes me cringeeee) when I met my b/f about that time last year, he asked me to grow it out (which he knew was possible, because there is plenty of females in his family that has long hair, he is jamacian) because I have always had some kinda weave in my hair. Believe it or not I am tired of wearing weaves, i have done so for years years and years. Anyhooo back to my question, I want to relax now and continue to grow out my hair, but how would i get that relax look with lots of body, if i cant achieve this then i won't relax.. FOR I LOVE BIG HAIR WITH A PASSION! Thank you any suggestions will help