barbiesocialite
Well-Known Member
well.....have you?
Or have you dated your ex's close friend shortly after you ended a relationship with him?
Or have you dated your ex's close friend shortly after you ended a relationship with him?
Men are some shady disloyal creatures.
I dated this one guy recently (like all summer) and now his best friend, and godfather to his daughter, is coming at me hard. Like super hard. If I wanted to I know I could get a rang outa him in 6 months.
I'm not into black guys like that but I am going to spend Christmas with him. Hope his best friend doesnt find out......well then again, it's not like I care if he does...
however, I'm not giving up my Real Estate boo for ANYONE. NEVER.
You mean like three different times? Or like Brother to cousin then to the best friend?I have, with 3 guys. They all knew and there were no issues....that I know of.
Oh...ok. Nvm then.What a disgusting question. Only heauxs do that. Like, ewwwwwwwww...
No she's not. And if a man actually slept with both few would label him negatively.Oh...ok. Nvm then.
What if you never slept with the first one and that relationship only lasted a few months? While the second relationship lasted 4-5 years?
Is...my friend...a heaux still?
Go for it.
Most men don't consider their boys' girls off limits. If they like what they see, and they want the girl, that loyalty goes out of the window. Most will sit back and wait on the relationship to crumble, and some will get in their boy's head to encourage it only to swoop in when it ends.
That's the difference between men and women. A man will go after everything he wants in life without a care about whose feelings are hurt behind it. Women are loyal and go through life trying not to step on too many toes. In the end most women end up settling for much less than they wanted... But hey, they kept everyone else happy right?
Blood brothers are off limits for me but if a guy's friend is a better match for me and he pursues, I'd give him a chance. I have nothing to lose in that situation. He gets vetted like any other man. These days my loyalty has to be earned. No ring means I'm always up for grabs.
The same people we sacrifice for and work so hard to appease can't do anything to save us from our ultimate end. The same people side-eyeing your life choices and calling you a heaux aren't paying your bills or keeping your bed warm. Look back a few centuries and you'd see that our female ancestors were savages. Women these days are nice and accommodating in romance and relationships. You'd be shocked at the stuff your great-great grandmothers used to do and get away with.
And who cares what his broke, dusty circle of friends think?
Oh...ok. Nvm then.
What if you never slept with the first one and that relationship only lasted a few months? While the second relationship lasted 4-5 years?
Is...my friend...a heaux still?
Don't date relatives, too messy and the family will forever side eye you. I believe in getting real good with the family.
I wouldn't move like that cause you risk being known as the pass around chick in the circle of friends. Respect my name.
I have, with 3 guys. They all knew and there were no issues....that I know of.
Yeah they're beefing.Men are some shady disloyal creatures.
I dated this one guy recently (like all summer) and now his best friend, and godfather to his daughter, is coming at me hard. Like super hard. If I wanted to I know I could get a rang outa him in 6 months.
I'm not into black guys like that but I am going to spend Christmas with him. Hope his best friend doesnt find out......well then again, it's not like I care if he does...
however, I'm not giving up my Real Estate boo for ANYONE. NEVER.