MsSharee06
Member
hello everyone i need some advice from a christian point of view. My fiance and I have been going through it the past two years, I know a majority of it was me, I entered the realtionship with anger management issues that I acquired as a child. For instance whenever we got into arguments i would yell, scream, whatever its almost embarassing to admit but he stood by me. He was no saint either but he never put his hands on me. He is a man of god and we both have a relationship with christ, we've prayed for each other, helped each other through hard times. Well recently I found some emails that he sent about two other women two weeks ago, I woke him up immediately and confronted him about it. He told me that he did it because he felt pushed due to my actions, he says that for the past few yeas I verbally abused him and hurt his pride. He said that all the interactions were strictly over the internet and he only did it for about two weeks. I was extremely hurt to find the messages, but he told me that he was sincerely sorry and its not like him to do anything like that and this is the first thing that he did anything like this during our relationship. We both agreed that we both have a lot of work to do to make this relationship work, I try to move on but I cant stop thinking about what he did. I really think he is a good man and we can be happy again eventually. Has anyone experienced anything like this, please give me your advice. I just need someone to talk to about this.