cheri_flava74
New Member
Hello ladies. I have recently rededicated myself to Christ. I have been going through alot of things with my ex husband and other problems. I was stressing myself and worrying until I was making myself sick because I was trying to handle things on my own. Well God won the battle ( and I say that because I believe that He continue to teach me that I have to trust, believe, and depend on Him) and I submitted myself to him. I knew that the peace I had before when I focused on Him and was obedient but I am still struggling with trusting Him no matter what the circumstances. The circumstance is this-----
I have been going through a divorce, custody, childsupport battle with my ex since 2004. Well he doesn't want to pay childsupport. He has been working 2 jobs since we separated in 2004 until 3 weeks ago when he found out that he was going to be ordered to pay 919 in childsupport for our 2 children. Well the we went to court yesterday and he quit his full time job as an office manager making 18 dollar an hours/4o hr a week. He told the court that he quit the job to go to school full time and work part time at the second job he was holding where he makes 11.74 per hour and work 25 hours a week. This income brings put him within the poverty guideline. I am so hurt because I have went through so much of him hurting me and it seems to never end. When I was in the military he was constantly calling my commander telling them that I need to be paying him 100dollars a month so eventually I got out because he continued to harass me. He tried to take the kids, he tried to say they wasn't his, he wouldn't give the courts his financial statements, and he haven't given me childsupport on a regular basis. I just feel like it has been so unfair and I am trying to believe God and trust that He will work things out but it is hard when I have 4 children and no help.
Can you all pray for me and give me some scriptures to meditate on?
I have been going through a divorce, custody, childsupport battle with my ex since 2004. Well he doesn't want to pay childsupport. He has been working 2 jobs since we separated in 2004 until 3 weeks ago when he found out that he was going to be ordered to pay 919 in childsupport for our 2 children. Well the we went to court yesterday and he quit his full time job as an office manager making 18 dollar an hours/4o hr a week. He told the court that he quit the job to go to school full time and work part time at the second job he was holding where he makes 11.74 per hour and work 25 hours a week. This income brings put him within the poverty guideline. I am so hurt because I have went through so much of him hurting me and it seems to never end. When I was in the military he was constantly calling my commander telling them that I need to be paying him 100dollars a month so eventually I got out because he continued to harass me. He tried to take the kids, he tried to say they wasn't his, he wouldn't give the courts his financial statements, and he haven't given me childsupport on a regular basis. I just feel like it has been so unfair and I am trying to believe God and trust that He will work things out but it is hard when I have 4 children and no help.
Can you all pray for me and give me some scriptures to meditate on?