CurlyMoo
Well-Known Member
I have always thought the best relationships begin when both parties are single and unattached. No baggage, complications nor drama. Now I know that's a bunch of hog wash. Most people are already in some kind of romantic/sexual relationship before they meet and fall in love with someone else that suits them better. And oftentimes these relationships overlap and the next relationship is the long-term love they wanted. In fact the drama is the spice that adds fuel to the fire and makes the person feel like they fought to get a good thing and won.
I also know for a FACT that many people are not WHOLE before they meet the other whole that makes a complete package. You know the Oprah ideal. Oftentimes, we meet someone who gives us what we lack, like security, family, logic, etc. And some people are just one big happy mess.![Spinning :spinning: :spinning:](/smilies/spinning.gif)
What are your realities that you have learned regarding dating and relationships? Reality vs the myths.
I also know for a FACT that many people are not WHOLE before they meet the other whole that makes a complete package. You know the Oprah ideal. Oftentimes, we meet someone who gives us what we lack, like security, family, logic, etc. And some people are just one big happy mess.
![Spinning :spinning: :spinning:](/smilies/spinning.gif)
What are your realities that you have learned regarding dating and relationships? Reality vs the myths.