Random Hair Thoughts/Thinking out loud

I put my hair into twists and have pinned them up all over. I’m still rocking a TWA but this is the easiest way for me to be consistent while it’s cold out. I’ll most likely take them down on Thursday or Friday to wear as a twistout, then wash and do them all over again over the weekend.

My longest layer (at my nape) is about an inch from SL. But I feel weird claiming it when the rest of the layers aren’t caught up. I feel like I can get past SL this year, but APL is a stretch.
 
I just realized why my edges won't let me be great. I got a bunch of new growth :lachen::lachen::lachen: Duh, I haven't relaxed since Thanksgiving, what did I expect? I low key forgot my hair still grows *facepalm*

:DWhenever I think about how it would be if I relaxed my hair (which I would never do again) I think about how it only looks ok for about a month (for me). New growth just won't let it be great, just like you said. I love that my whole head is "nappy", that way my hair matches my edges:alcoholics:.


ETA: In my relaxer days I loved to touch my new growth. It felt so good and spongy.
 
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Don't you hate when you end up with liters of product that you don't want/can't use? What am I going to do with all this mess? I guess give it away. More money down the drain.
Absolutely! I can't tell how much money I've spent on products only to give them away. I hope when my transition is done I find all my staples and stick with it. I want a minimal product regimen. I *STAY* giving stuff away.
 
OMG!

A YouTuber popped up into my feed, and for a second I was mesmerized without knowing why. She looks like a quite younger, more model-ly version of myself. I was like o_O .

I took me a second to figure out why I felt confused looking at her.

It is the weirdest thing! I would post the video, but y'all aren't gonna agree with me, and I'm going to then be tempted to make my case! :lachen:
 
Yesterday I added one egg to Queen Helen Cholesterol and Dc’ed for about 25 minutes. This is the second time I am adding an egg to my DC for the year. My hair is noticeably stronger. This will be my form of a protein treatment. When I need a stronger treatment I will add one more egg. I am very happy that I took the plunge.
 
It still amazes me how much my hair hangs. My profile pic (siggy?) is my hair about 15 months post relaxer, and a few weeks after cutting off my relaxed ends. I think it was taken October or November 2016 and I was about shoulder- collar bone length.

I remember being very shocked at how much hang I had. I remember hearing someone in a YouTube video say “type 4 hair defies graffity” and thought to myself “uhhhh, not this head of hair”. I mean even my 4b hair on the sides hang. My hair never sticks up.

Most likely has a lot to do with how fine my strands are, as well as my density (medium to low).

P.s That pic was also taken a week after my first henna treatment, and a few days after my first Amla and ziziphus treatment. All of these things contributed to a lot of temporary Curl poppage and clumping that my hair does not typically exhibit. But the hang has been the same from chopping to now.
 
OMG!

A YouTuber popped up into my feed, and for a second I was mesmerized without knowing why. She looks like a quite younger, more model-ly version of myself. I was like o_O .

I took me a second to figure out why I felt confused looking at her.

It is the weirdest thing! I would post the video, but y'all aren't gonna agree with me, and I'm going to then be tempted to make my case! :lachen:
I saw her...

I thought of you right away!:shocked:

*joking*

That is cool though, I want it to happened to me. "Everyone has a twin" they say.

POST IT.
 
The weather is warmer, so there's no excuse for not having washed and DCed my hair. It's been 17 days. Hmm. I'm still unmotivated and unashamed after having typed that. Perhaps, tomorrow...
You’ll do it when you’re ready it will be ok.

You’re statement reminds me of this
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It is so hard looking for a leave-in spray that doesn’t have glycerin, or protein In the top 5 ingredients list...
I was looking at the wig and extension sprays... think I might go back for the Remi spray..
 
i got 6 inches cut off my hair last week after not really having a good trim in 4 years. about 2 inches of my hair still have split ends, but at this point i dont want to go shorter than my current length. if i don't get them cut off immediately will they get worse before my next trim in 3 months? i also kinda don't want to straighten my hair so soon.
 
i got 6 inches cut off my hair last week after not really having a good trim in 4 years. about 2 inches of my hair still have split ends, but at this point i dont want to go shorter than my current length. if i don't get them cut off immediately will they get worse before my next trim in 3 months? i also kinda don't want to straighten my hair so soon.
I have never seen someone’s hair get better holding on to split ends. Your hair can’t receive proper moisture and it makes everything difficult. I would trim now and get it over with. Yes, your hair will be shorter, but it will be healthy and manageable. It’s the beginning of the year. Your hair will be ready for the growth spurts during the spring and summer months. I had to cut a lot of my hair off, since my ends were so porous from bleaching, coloring, relaxing, hard water, and washing in hot water.
 
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