Random Hair Thoughts/Thinking out loud

[GGsKin]

I don't know how much longer my hair can take a loose wash and go that doesnt get washed enough but until I get a dryer I don't want to do attempt anything else lol.

Been on the lookout for a hood dryer comparable to a Pibbs but available in UK.

The fine strands that make up my 'clumps' are becoming a nightmare to detangle. At my lower section, I'm finding knots further up the strands

Finger detangling, removing single strand by single strand with some tension on the ends... this becomes tedious and in frustration I start popping strands apart.

I've been missing the idea of combing but because of the wng life and the clumping, it is such a process comb out my hair without causing breakage. Ughhhh!

 

[SAPNK]

When do you detangle?
How often do you detangle? I find that detangling too often is a bit much.
I get webbing in my crown, but it’s because I rest my hair most in that area.
Also, products are you using in comparison to shampoo? I heavy seal so my CRN takes just enough off to not strip, but my nexxus and redken are very cleansing, so I’m left with a bit more tangles.

I only detangle on wash day usually. Before, during, and/or after washing. Don't judge me, but right now I'm using VO5 shampoo, and Tresseme conditioner. The shampoo doesn't make my hair too tangly, and the conditioner makes it pretty soft and easy to detangle under the running water.

 

[Sharpened]

I don't know how much longer my hair can take a loose wash and go that doesnt get washed enough but until I get a dryer I don't want to do attempt anything else lol.

Been on the lookout for a hood dryer comparable to a Pibbs but available in UK.

The fine strands that make up my 'clumps' are becoming a nightmare to detangle. At my lower section, I'm finding knots further up the strands

Finger detangling, removing single strand by single strand with some tension on the ends... this becomes tedious and in frustration I start popping strands apart.

I've been missing the idea of combing but because of the wng life and the clumping, it is such a process comb out my hair without causing breakage. Ughhhh!

Time for a bun break?

 

[Honey Bee]

@SAPNK Grease might very well work so definitely try that, but also, check your porosity and your protein levels.

 

[Saludable84]

I only detangle on wash day usually. Before, during, and/or after washing. Don't judge me, but right now I'm using VO5 shampoo, and Tresseme conditioner. The shampoo doesn't make my hair too tangly, and the conditioner makes it pretty soft and easy to detangle under the running water.

There have been some good, but rare posts on detangling. One of the biggest culprits has been over detangling. Too much can lead to more tangles. You know your hair better than I do, but Ive noticed the more I detangle, the more I have to detangle.

Check your porosity and protein levels at @Honey Bee suggested. Also, grease does work very well. I try to use a shampoo that will not strip all the grease (sounds weird right), and this helps with the detangling.

 

[Evolving78]

@SAPNK
You made need a regular Afro comb to detangle.. jumbo wide toothed combs do not get the job done for me when I first start to detangle. I used a comb with wide long teeth, but not as wide as a shower comb, or just a regular old school styled comb. Once my hair is detangled, then I can go through with a wider comb.
Also I finger detangle first with oil on dry hair before I wet my hair. I do this as a relaxed head, and did it as a natural. I have coily natural hair and my new growth can get matted and tangled very quickly. So I believe with your texture, you need to switch tools. Also you may benefit from using a serum, or hair grease.
It’s time for folks to go back to the tried and true.
Regular comb and some hair grease.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Ma'am, so far it looks like you are right about grease! I put 12 chunky twists in my hair just now. My hair separated easily, unfurled and elongated easily, and released tangles easily.

It's been a greasy two days, but I'm winning over tangles and SSKs.

Cheers for Grease! .

I'm telling you, I know it has saved my ends and my strands! I'm so happy for this news!

So far grease has not let me down and I hope it never lets you down either!

 

[PJaye]

This is the first time since the onset of my addiction that I'm not eagerly anticipating BF/CM and do not have a list.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Also, Thank you for trying it! @YvetteWithJoy

 

[Evolving78]

This is the first time since the onset of my addiction that I'm not eagerly anticipating BF/CM and do not have a list.

I have a list since I have found my holy grail hair product company.

 

[YvetteWithJoy]

Also, Thank you for trying it! @YvetteWithJoy

Thanks for suggesting/discussing it.

It couldn't hurt! I've tried things much more adventurous, so returning to grease wasn't worrisome. LOL.

 

[Honey Bee]

Also, Thank you for trying it! @YvetteWithJoy

Once I start wearing my hair out (maybe spring), I'll be trying it too. I have fine strands but like to wear it out.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Once I start wearing my hair out (maybe spring), I'll be trying it too. I have fine strands but like to wear it out.

I think you'll like it. It will protect your strands! And the hair is less likely to dry out as much.

 

[GGsKin]

Time for a bun break?

Some variation of it where my hair isnt all pulled back can work. I've never been about that bun life because I don't think they suit me. But I will do something before I get to snipping again.

 

[Honey Bee]

I think you'll like it. It will protect your strands! And the hair is less likely to dry out as much.

My hair don't get a chance to dry out , I do MHM so I wash at least 2x/wk. But I always washed that often, even relaxed. They used to tell me my hair was gon fall out from washing so much. Funny, cuz my joint was always flowing and good smelling while theirs.... not so much.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Thanks for suggesting/discussing it.

It couldn't hurt! I've tried things much more adventurous, so returning to grease wasn't worrisome. LOL.

Well alright, your next experiment is to try curl activator along with the grease! .

 

[I Am So Blessed]

My hair don't get a chance to dry out , I do MHM so I wash at least 2x/wk. But I always washed that often, even relaxed. They used to tell me my hair was gon fall out from washing so much. Funny, cuz my joint was always flowing and good smelling while theirs.... not so much.

LOL LOL.

 

[YvetteWithJoy]

Well alright, your next experiment is to try curl activator along with the grease! .

Well . . . You know how I just COULDN'T get regular degular grease? I'm gonna need a healthy-ingredients-only, preferably ayurvedic curl activator. I asked SM to make one! Lol!

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Well . . . You know how I just COULDN'T get regular degular grease? I'm gonna need a healthy-ingredients-only, preferably ayurvedic curl activator. I asked SM to make one! Lol!

LOL my thoughts exactly!! That would be something if you found one! I did do a tiny search and couldn't find one. Somebody better start making it!

 

[Honey Bee]

Well . . . You know how I just COULDN'T get regular degular grease? I'm gonna need a healthy-ingredients-only, preferably ayurvedic curl activator. I asked SM to make one! Lol!

LOL my thoughts exactly!! That would be something if you found one! I did do a tiny search and couldn't find one. Somebody better start making it!

It shouldn't be that hard. People were making their own glycerin blends here years ago, and that's basically what activator is, right?

eta: @YvetteWithJoy, If you're really into ayurveda, you could make a tea and mix it with glycerin and other assorted goodies as you see fit. Literally, just making a tea and mixing it up. The tricky part is how much glycerin your hair needs/ can take, based on region and climate/ avg dew point. The good news is, once you figure it out, you're good (until you move or the season changes, lol, but then you'll know for next year). Happy Belated, btw!

 

[Alma Petra]

Is CJ smoothing lotion not an activator?

 

[I Am So Blessed]

It shouldn't be that hard. People were making their own glycerin blends here years ago, and that's basically what activator is, right?

eta: @YvetteWithJoy, If you're really into ayurveda, you could make a tea and mix it with glycerin and other assorted goodies as you see fit. Literally, just making a tea and mixing it up. The tricky part is how much glycerin your hair needs/ can take, based on region and climate/ avg dew point. The good news is, once you figure it out, you're good (until you move or the season changes, lol, but then you'll know for next year). Happy Belated, btw!

Yup, that's all activator is, is glycerin with some color and perfume. Good idea! Glycerin is good for me all year around.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Is CJ smoothing lotion not an activator?

Does it have glycerin in it? Glycerin is usually the second ingredient if it's an activator.

 

[Alma Petra]

Does it have glycerin in it? Glycerin is usually the second ingredient if it's an activator.

It's the 4th ingredient but it's felt sort of glyceriny to me. Not as glyceriny as Aunt Jackie Quench though, or the Mane Choice Lemonade Mousse.

I like a teeny tiny bit of glycerin in my hair to give it a little boost of moisture (illusion of dampness) without the stickiness. Jane Carter Untangle Me does this very nicely.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

I don't personally know any body that wants long natural hair. My sister's hair is growing nicely, but she's not into hair . She couldn't care less. What I mean to say is, I don't know anyone on a journey that actually cares. I am the only one in my world.

 

[Alma Petra]

@YvetteWithJoy I suggest the Mane Choice mousse if you want to try glycerin because it feels like an activator and defines like a mousse so it gives you more than a DIY glycerin mix. Glycerin is the 3rd ingredient though so the stickiness can get real if you use too much or if your hair can't handle that sort of thing.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

@YvetteWithJoy I suggest the Mane Choice mousse if you want to try glycerin because it feels like an activator and defines like a mousse so it gives you more than a DIY glycerin mix. Glycerin is the 3rd ingredient though so the stickiness can get real if you use too much or if your hair can't handle that sort of thing.

Would that be good for roller sets? Would it hold I mean.

 

[YvetteWithJoy]

Is CJ smoothing lotion not an activator?

I don't know!

Unless I strip my hair and undefine my roots, my coils are EVER activated.

I don't understand the product category.

 

[YvetteWithJoy]

Wow. You guys rock. Thank you, ladies!

 

[Alma Petra]

Would that be good for roller sets? Would it hold I mean.

I believe that a mousse should have a mild holding effect. If your hair usually doesn't need a lot of hold (personally I use gel for my bantu knot outs) you can sure try the mousse. The most striking effect of mousses for me is curl definition so they should be great for a wash and go.

This for example was done using VO5 smoothly does it mousse:

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