Random Hair Thoughts/Thinking out loud

[YvetteWithJoy]

Will answer this question later this evening. Rushing getting ready for work at the moment.

No worries! Take your time. I look forward to reading your list.

 

[Evolving78]

I have a ton of studying to do. I washed my hair, so my hair fever s

This why I said pray for my edges. Idk why I did this to myself. Being impatient and stuff. Best to believe I'm spraying that X21 lbvs. It'll be awhile before I go back to a braiding shop. My eyebrows cute though

girl get some oil too!

 

[sarumoki]

Thinking about going back to my sulfur oil and hoping that the smell just won't penetrate through my wigs.

 

[**SaSSy**]

How long should I keep wearing my beehive braid, that I wear underneath my braids?

I was thinking 7-8 weeks, but maybe that's too long?

 

[brownb83]

Bought my first wand curler! Im so excited.

 

[sarumoki]

I let myself get so lazy with my hair and now I'm paying the price. Thank God for Mane & Tail detangler otherwise my transition would've been cut short way ahead of schedule.

 

[irisak]

So my laziness has turned relaxer day into relaxer weekend. I texlaxed and colored with manic panic last night but I'm still DCing, and need to rollerset and trim.

 

[HaveSomeWine]

So, I just used up a 32.5 oz. jar of Kanechom Acai Conditioning Mask in three washes. Heavy handed or nah? LOL.

 

[Nightingale]

I thought about changing my wash day from Friday to some other weekday, but decided against it because then I couldn't participate in the "what are your weekend hair plans?" threads.

 

[Bad&Bougee]

I thought about changing my wash day from Friday to some other weekday, but decided against it because then I couldn't participate in the "what are your weekend hair plans?" threads.

Nightingale (and all ladies), please don't think this is a stupid question but those that wash and condition weekly, do you think it damages your hair or do you think your hair is better for it? I ask because I have seen so many blogs and posts where women say that weekly washes is too much. I barely make it 7 days before I feel as though I NEED to wash and condition my hair (start Sunday night and end Sunday afternoon) - what are your thoughts please?

 

[Pygmy_puff]

Nightingale (and all ladies), please don't think this is a stupid question but those that wash and condition weekly, do you think it damages your hair or do you think your hair is better for it? I ask because I have seen so many blogs and posts where women say that weekly washes is too much. I barely make it 7 days before I feel as though I NEED to wash and condition my hair (start Sunday night and end Sunday afternoon) - what are your thoughts please?

I think everyone is different and has different hair/scalp needs. If you feel like you need to wash, then it's probably because you need to! I usually wash 1-2 times per week otherwise my scalp gets itchy and irritated. My mom, on the other hand, can go two weeks without a problem m. Just do what feels right and pay attention to how your hair/scalp reacts and you will be fine

 

[Nightingale]

Nightingale (and all ladies), please don't think this is a stupid question but those that wash and condition weekly, do you think it damages your hair or do you think your hair is better for it? I ask because I have seen so many blogs and posts where women say that weekly washes is too much. I barely make it 7 days before I feel as though I NEED to wash and condition my hair (start Sunday night and end Sunday afternoon) - what are your thoughts please?

@Pygmy_puff is right about it depending on your hair and scalp needs. My hair can stay moisturized for up to two weeks without washing, but my sensitive scalp cannot go that long. To avoid scalp irritation and flakes, I MUST shampoo and scalp exfoliate at least once a week.

Lifestyle is another consideration. When I'm working out regularly and not protective styling, I need to wash at least twice a week. Another thing to consider is strand thickness. If you have fine hair, frequent washing and styling could be too much manipulation.

I think the key when you're washing more often is to be gentle and pay attention to your hair's moisture/protein balance.

 

[Napp]

I hate my hair. I'm so unhappy with it. cutting more off just makes it worse. my hair sucks. I don't know what to do next

 

[rileypak]

So, I just used up a 32.5 oz. jar of Kanechom Acai Conditioning Mask in three washes. Heavy handed or nah? LOL.

I use about 4-6 ounces of DC and 4 ounces of creamy leave in per wash so I understand

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

@Feenix

 

[ItsMeLilLucky]

I hate my hair. I'm so unhappy with it. cutting more off just makes it worse. my hair sucks. I don't know what to do next

Put it away? Maybe putting it away for a time will help you relax and view your hair more objectively?

 

[Sharpened]

Another length during washing milestone: hair wrapping around my lips. I thought it was shed hair until I pulled it. I guess it is time to wash in sections. I hate washing in sections...

 

[Bad&Bougee]

@Pygmy_puff is right about it depending on your hair and scalp needs. My hair can stay moisturized for up to two weeks without washing, but my sensitive scalp cannot go that long. To avoid scalp irritation and flakes, I MUST shampoo and scalp exfoliate at least once a week.

Lifestyle is another consideration. When I'm working out regularly and not protective styling, I need to wash at least twice a week. Another thing to consider is strand thickness. If you have fine hair, frequent washing and styling could be too much manipulation.

I think the key when you're washing more often is to be gentle and pay attention to your hair's moisture/protein balance.

I am similar to you and @Pygmy_puff when it comes to scalp issues. My hair stays moisturized as well and can hold a style for 2 weeks but my scalp commands far more attention. And great reminder about protein/moisture balance. I do a 5 minute reconstructor every 2 to 3 weeks and pretreat and deep condition when not using protein. I do have fine, coarse hair but no issues with hair loss due to weekly manipulation (thank goodness).

Thanks for the feedback ALL.

 

[Bad&Bougee]

I hate my hair. I'm so unhappy with it. cutting more off just makes it worse. my hair sucks. I don't know what to do next

What exactly don't you like about your hair? Is it dry, do you dislike the texture, is it difficult to maintain.......?

 

[Napp]

What exactly don't you like about your hair? Is it dry, do you dislike the texture, is it difficult to maintain.......?

I don't like the texture of my hair. It's rough. plus I can't grow it past apl. I wish I had silky textured hair

 

[Napp]

Put it away? Maybe putting it away for a time will help you relax and view your hair more objectively?

I think I need to wear a wig or something. it's like I cut my hair into the awkward stage.

 

[Bad&Bougee]

I don't like the texture of my hair. It's rough. plus I can't grow it past apl. I wish I had silky textured hair

Rough hair usually signifies thirsty hair. For a few weeks, you may want to consider prepooing and deep conditioning with quality products and a nice leave in conditioner. It is going to take time to rehydrate those tresses but you should see significant improvements with a regular routine of prepooing and deep conditioning.

What shampoo and conditioner are you currently using?

 

[Bad&Bougee]

I think I need to wear a wig or something. it's like I cut my hair into the awkward stage.

I love wearing wigs and it is a great way to "hide" your hair until you can baby it back to health. When wearing a wig just be sure you moisturize daily because they suck up product.

 

[GettingKinky]

I hate my hair. I'm so unhappy with it. cutting more off just makes it worse. my hair sucks. I don't know what to do next

I'm sorry you're feeling this way

 

[Evolving78]

I got an internship for the summer. I have three months till it starts. I think I'm going to braid my hair up and use that xcel spray I got until then. Hopefully, it'll give me some inches. I'm probably going to wear my hair blown out throughout the internship.

I'm excited for you!

 

[Evolving78]

How long should I keep wearing my beehive braid, that I wear underneath my braids?

I hate my hair. I'm so unhappy with it. cutting more off just makes it worse. my hair sucks. I don't know what to do next

Girl I had got a haircut and it was the worst. I tried to fix it, and it just went downhill from there.
I installed Senegalese twists. My hair grew out enough for me to feel comfortable with my own

 

[Pygmy_puff]

I think I need to wear a wig or something. it's like I cut my hair into the awkward stage.

I'm sorry you are feeling this way! I think @whosthatcurl has a good idea. Maybe a little protective styling can help you switch it up and get past the awkward length? Whatever you do, stop cutting unless you want to go for a big chop!
Hope it gets better for you!

 

[CodeRed]

I don't like the texture of my hair. It's rough. plus I can't grow it past apl. I wish I had silky textured hair

At least you're good to admit it instead of beating around the bush.

 

[beingofserenity]

I'm excited for you!

Thanks!

 

[ImanAdero]

Been a long time since I've been on this side of the board!

I big chopped again! And it's so fly. I feel extra swaggy!

When my face gets thinner, you won't be be able to tell me nothing!