Random Hair Thoughts/Thinking out loud

What is wrong with me!!!

I had APL hair and my stylist (purposely?) cut my hair to CL in 2014. I decided to transition to Natural and cut my relaxed ends in December 2015.

Now, here I am fully natural and all I want to do is perm my hair bone straight, so I can let it SWAAANNNNGGGGGGG!!

But I want to still keep my curls.

UGH!!!!!!
 
Just a heads up.. I texlaxed after about 4.5 years natural due to my frustration with SSKs. I didn't loosen my ends enough during the process and still had SSKs. I even tried to correct it during the next application to no avail. IF I ever do it again, I'll just go for a Yaki perm texture instead, like prettywitty77 on YT. Hers is just a slightly underprocessed perm which maintains thickness and allows for airdrying. My hair was still so curly that I had to treat it the same way I did my natural hair.

GL w whatever you decide. I think maybe you should get the twist extensions first until you're sure texlaxing is what you want to do.


I was texlaxed previously. I had the same problem with SSKs even when texlaxed. I would leave the relaxer on my roots and ends because it took a little longer to processed. (My shaft would processed quickly)........weird?

but I'm going to texlax my hair. My hair doesn't like the bone straight relaxer and I hate dealing with y natural texture.

I wish my hair would just obey me.
 
I was trying to avoid washing my hair until next week but I have a small area of my scalp that's irritated. I'm going to put a little witch hazel on a qtip and apply it to that area for a few minutes then apply a little bit of coconut oil before bed. If it doesn't feel better in the morning I'll wash. I need to get some tea tree oil.
 
Lol, so.. how are you going to tell me my hair isn't a washngo. My curls are the size of coffee stirrers. Fully defined... just small and slinky in nature. Do you really think I sat down and twisted my hair this small?

Why are so many people amazed by type 4a/b curls in its natural state???

I got this comment the other week. These folks think my hair is a teeny weeny twist-out or some kind of magic lol.
 
Lol, so.. how are you going to tell me my hair isn't a washngo. My curls are the size of coffee stirrers. Fully defined... just small and slinky in nature. Do you really think I sat down and twisted my hair this small?

Why are so many people amazed by type 4a/b curls in its natural state???
Yes! I think it's because the poster children for "curls" are the 3's. People seriously think I've done something to make my hair curl like this!!
 
my hair has been thriving...i am so happy...i finally...yes finally have all the right productsssss....praise di lawddd:rose: everyone has been like wow your hair looks nice who did it and i say me!!! lolol

and also i realize my lack of detangling is the reason why my hair was looking wrecked and etc---i am shocked to say for some reason i wouldn't detangle before washing at home and as we know that is a recipe for disaster and i see why my hair was so knotted and hard to manage...duhhhhh

anyhooo i figured out how to keep the hair on my head and that is with great products and good finger detangling..my hair grows like a weed and it is thick but i would always have some sorta set-back so finally i was the main culprit...also the fine teeth comb that hairdressers use is a no for my thick hair...anyhoo i just had to say an amen for my hair journey with myself lol

also the shampoo brush/comb thingy is a god send...the scalp needs to be free of gunk so its a must for a healthy scalp to grow hair
 
Yay, I finally took my Senegalese twists out. But I still have house stuff and school stuff to do. I don't know how close wash day is...
 
What is wrong with me!!!



Now, here I am fully natural and all I want to do is perm my hair bone straight, so I can let it SWAAANNNNGGGGGGG!!

But I want to still keep my curls.

UGH!!!!!!

:lol: Girl @movingforward, I know this feeling all too well. One time I thought about relaxing my hair bone straight again instead of mildly texlaxing, and let me tell you I thought I would pass out from palpitations. I know for sure I love my curly texture but I also know, I could really enjoy some straight hair without the fear of reverting. :nono: What to do?
 
Lol, so.. how are you going to tell me my hair isn't a washngo. My curls are the size of coffee stirrers. Fully defined... just small and slinky in nature. Do you really think I sat down and twisted my hair this small?

Why are so many people amazed by type 4a/b curls in its natural state???
I get this constantly myself. Shocking that people can't accept that a few of us just like kinks....a lot! And what's better is that it looks awesome on us.
 
:lol: Girl @movingforward, I know this feeling all too well. One time I thought about relaxing my hair bone straight again instead of mildly texlaxing, and let me tell you I thought I would pass out from palpitations. I know for sure I love my curly texture but I also know, I could really enjoy some straight hair without the fear of reverting. :nono: What to do?


Lol!

I texlaxed today. But the thought of straighten my hair did cross my mind. Lol!

I know I would kick myself if I lose my curls.
 
Rather disappointed in Whitney because after all her description of her symptoms, she only says at the end to go seek medical attention and related that to being checked before getting salon services. Her husband is a nurse and she waited 2 years with significant physical symptoms that required her to seek out a doctor eventually? This is where health-nutism goes too far, imo. Hair falling out, suffering severe fatigue? Seek your PCP first. Don't wait 2 freaking years, trying to figure out which cleanse to use. smh

 
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