Questions from a martied lady.

SelahOco

SelahOco

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Questions from a married lady...

I was trying to decide if I was gonna wear my girdle today and this question came to mind.

If you're single, do you wear spanx on a date if you intend to have sex with the man?

If so, how do you remove them if you're trying to be all sexy. It's hard to be sexy removing Spanx.

:). Just wondering. :lachen:
 
If I intended to have sex and was wearing something that required Spanx I would probably wear a control slip instead.

If you were going on a romantic getaway or something and you plan on changing into something.... more.... (ahem) comfortable. Then I would just change out of them in the bathroom when changing. By the way, I don't wear Spanx because they're just too uncomfy. I prefer pantyhose for control when required.
 
I probably wouldn't wear spanx, if I were planning on coloring later or I would change out of them beforehand.
 
I love Spanx so I get the issue here.

I just ended up not wearing them, unfortunately.It is hard to be sexy pulling those suckers off.

If you are open to corsets and such, those could work. Those are seen as sexy attire, but still serve a purpose.
 
i don't even wear underwear, much less spanx.:lol: I wear shapewear only if it's under a formal gown, etc
 
I only wear it cause I have a baby pouch, but DH don't care. He just tells me to take off my bullet proof vest. :lachen:

But I think if I was single I would never ever ever wear one. I just can't imagine having the conversation!!!
 
I don't think I wore shapewear back when I was dating. I was a lot smaller then. You could just take it off in the bathroom. *shrugs* I hate Spanx and never wear them. I do wear my waist cincher if necessary but that's not very often either.
 
LOL I would never do that. I think it would make a good comedic scene for a romantic comedy though.

Weirdly every time I'm single I drop to Barbie weight and don't need any help. Its in a relationship I often could do with buying some shapewear :look:
 
i'm not a married lady anymore, but i didn't need to wear them with my ex husband when we were dating. i was much smaller. now with my current SO, i wore them during our first hook back up moment. when i was with him before, i was younger, no kids, etc... so my body was completely different. i just snatched them off and allowed him to take off the my undies and bra.

yes i wear underwear under spanx! :lol:
 
I'm not married but me and SO live together. I rarely wear spanx but when I do, I never let him see me put them on or take them off... that's not sexy.
 
Nope. I buy girdles but never wear them because they're too much trouble. Take me as I am. If you're with me you must like big women anyway.

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If the outfit calls for it I would. If I intend to get busy after a date I take a shower and freshen up first so I would have to go in the bathroom anyway and freshen up.

If it's that spontaneous so be it.

I'm in the market for some spanx actually. I was reading a thread and a poster made a point that grown women should have some control wear and it got me thinking.
 
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