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deja86

deja86

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Would you date a younger guy? if no, why? If you are already- how old are you (if you dont mind sharing lol) and how old are they? etc
 
I'm 31. I can't go much younger. Really, I don't even like guys my age. But I guess 2-3 years won't hurt that much. As long as they are mature. But, even still I can tell the difference in maturity because I typically like men 10 years my senior.

I'm conflicted.
 
I'm yet to meet a younger man I can consider dating seriously. But I would do it if I felt he was mature enough for me.
 
I'm physically attracted to some younger men. But once my sensibilities kick in and I start thinking about what I want out of life, it just doesn't make sense.

"Date"? Maybe.
Consider Seriously? Doubtful.
 
^^^ I agree. I dated a younger guy...and that experience left a lot to be desired.

I'm 29 and will NOT date anyone younger than 30...but not older than 34...

**sigh** I gotta small arse window!! LOL
 
I'm 25 and the guy I possibly like is 22 surprisingly he ticks every box except 'age'. I don't have a major hangup about it but to date a guy that is younger has never really crossed my mind before. Had he said he was 25 would that have made a difference... Yes. As I probably would be more open to something developing. :ohwell:
 
deja86 said:
I'm 25 and the guy I possibly like is 22 surprisingly he ticks every box except 'age'. I don't have a major hangup about it but to date a guy that is younger has never really crossed my mind before. Had he said he was 25 would that have made a difference... Yes. As I probably would be more open to something developing. :ohwell:
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so he lied about his age....I'd be turned off by him lying.
 
I currently am, for the first time. He's five months younger and I feel like I'm robbing the cradle! lol

I prefer men two-six years older than me.
 
Windsy said:
so he lied about his age....I'd be turned off by him lying.
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I don't think he lied, she said if he said he was 25 then things could develop.

To answer the Q, nope!

But I'm in my early 20s and most guys I meet that age are stuck on stupid!
 
i'm 26 and a gentleman that is interested in me is 22 I havent talked to anyone that much younger then me before so i'm very hesitant but everyone is telling me to go for it EVEN MY BROTHER WHO IS 23 lol...until we realized it was someone he knew..then he shut it down So i'm back to sq 1 but if it wasnt that one reason I think i would've taken his courtship seriously
 
DejaVu2 said:
I don't think he lied, she said if he said he was 25 then things could develop.

To answer the Q, nope!

But I'm in my early 20s and most guys I meet that age are stuck on stupid!
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:lol: I swear I read that several times.....you are right....sorry OP!
 
You guys are making me laugh DejaVu2 ''stuck on stupid'' *chuckles* and Windsy

NappyNelle a couple months would be okay with me lets trade :lol:

stephluv do you really think you could have? I've never in my life thought or even remotely considered dating a younger guy but truthfully speaking if he hadn't told me his age I would have been none the wiser...
 
I usually date men a little older than me but I've been talking to this guy that's 2 years younger than me and although I was a little hesitant at first... It's a non-issue! He's 28 and I'm 30!
 
All of my relationships besides the current one the guys were usually 5-6 years older than me, not on purpose it just happened like that. Well, I'm in my 30's and my SO is 5 years younger than me. And really it's not a problem what issues we have are not related to his age. I have him a chance despite the age thing and I'm glad I did.

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deja86 said:
I'm 25 and the guy I possibly like is 22 surprisingly he ticks every box except 'age'. I don't have a major hangup about it but to date a guy that is younger has never really crossed my mind before. Had he said he was 25 would that have made a difference... Yes. As I probably would be more open to something developing. :ohwell:
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The same thing happened to me. I'm 22 and there was this 19 year old pursuing me. I just couldn't get over the age difference. But once I actually talked to him and spent time with him, I realized how mature he was with his thinking. He's more of a man than some of the 25+ year olds I was chasing. He was a man who treated me like a woman, and not a boy who treated me like a girl. I got over it, and now we're a couple. He's a great guy. Don't judge all guys by how their peers act. They're not responsible for them. :yep:
 
I would date someone a few years younger but not more than 5 years younger. I can't do any younger than that.
 
ThickRoot if you don't mind me asking how long have you been together?

BGT aww that's good to hear. I like that last part of what you said :yep: and yes I guess it is down to the individual.
 
I wouldn't only because I am (or I think I am ) young myself(I'm 25)...but IF they were as mature, independent and responsible as I am, I would give it a try. I prefer older men though..at least 30+
 
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