gone_fishing
New Member
Question. Is it realistic to think that you can...be with someone forever and not desire to be with other people?
I need some answers on this.
Maybe my job is making me a bit cynical working in a law office and processing divorces all day. Reading PI reports on cheating spouses. All the heartbreak and lies...
I don't think I believe in the concept of one person with one person anymore. I just don't see people doing this anymore. I believe that's how it SHOULD be...I just think our society is so far gone that we may never get back to that type of life.
Reading another thread on this board has caused me question this as well.
I know I've felt like that before like I could be with this person for ever and I'd be happy with that but nobody seems to be in agreement (men anyway) :/
So do I need to just give up on that? Should I just expect that things will turn out well.
Everybody cheats and lies so what is the point of being in a relationship?
Is it even realistic to think that you can get married and have a happy family and not cheat?
I guess maybe too many fairy tales as a little girl, no?
I need some answers on this.
Maybe my job is making me a bit cynical working in a law office and processing divorces all day. Reading PI reports on cheating spouses. All the heartbreak and lies...
I don't think I believe in the concept of one person with one person anymore. I just don't see people doing this anymore. I believe that's how it SHOULD be...I just think our society is so far gone that we may never get back to that type of life.
Reading another thread on this board has caused me question this as well.
I know I've felt like that before like I could be with this person for ever and I'd be happy with that but nobody seems to be in agreement (men anyway) :/
So do I need to just give up on that? Should I just expect that things will turn out well.
Everybody cheats and lies so what is the point of being in a relationship?
Is it even realistic to think that you can get married and have a happy family and not cheat?
I guess maybe too many fairy tales as a little girl, no?