Rezgirl
Member
I'm new to the whole protective styling kick. I mean we all rock a bun or clips now and then but to do it ALL the time is nuts to me. So, obviously I'm having a bit of a hard time but I'm committed to getting past bsl. The latest thing in my journey to send me for a loop is paranoia about other people's perceptions. I feel like screaming "oh no, honey, I got some hair up under all this but what had happened was..." And I'll admit, I was a hair snob. I'd walk around looking at people with their hair up like "why doesn't she do something with that". I've gotten some great ideas for styling on the board that are cute but still - I predominately wore my hair out before so I'm going through serious withdrawls now. I guess the lesson is not to judge people b/c one day u will be in their shoes. Just cause it's in a bun don't mean it's not done! lol