Pros and Cons of Being Natural
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ParagonTresses
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The biggest pro for me is that no matter how I style my hair, it looks like NO ONE elses. Even if I replicate a 'do I see on another natural, that will become MY style. I love that I can be uniquely me.
The only con that comes to mind regarding natural hair for me is the frizz. Me and frizz fight at least twice a week and she usually
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Hope you enjoy whatever you decide.
The only con that comes to mind regarding natural hair for me is the frizz. Me and frizz fight at least twice a week and she usually
.Hope you enjoy whatever you decide.
poookie
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India*32
New Member
I feel you on that one!
Those SSS were killing me. As my natural hair grew, I saw more little circles being washed down the shower as I combed my hair with every conditioner. It became more of a chore. I relaxed after six months of being natural. I do like the softness or silkiness of my hair now. The natural was nice as long as my hair was a half an inch. I'm in small box braids for the next six months. What I love most is the versatility of my 4a texture.
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bablou00
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I agree with everyone that has posted. I dont experience the SSK's as much as my hair is constantly in twist. I luv being natural and the variety it brings. I am able to wake up, shake my hair, put on my running shoes, sweat like a man, wash my hair, apply some conditioner and go to work all w/in 2 1/2 hours....I wouldnt trade that for nothing.
curlydrea
New Member
okay ill do the bad first...
Cons: Shrinkage... honestly this isnt a huge problem if you can get comfortable with a convenient routine.
Knots:
This also something that i had a problem with. The best solution for that has been adding protein to my regimen and keeping an eye out on my ends.
Pros:
Versitility: Im sure you already know this one. No one can deny the benefits of going from a curly fro to straight within an hour or so.
No restrictions: (I) can pretty much do any style i want at any time, period. You dont have to worry about having a "fresh" relaxer for a certain style/special occasion. Just wash, set, dry and go.
Shrinkage: This is my opinion... shrinkage adds a regal and unique element to tightly curled hair, even in a stretch style. The volume and bounce is beautiful to me. I love it!
Standing out! To me thick curls just seem to compliment black skin and/or features the way no the other style can.
Cons: Shrinkage... honestly this isnt a huge problem if you can get comfortable with a convenient routine.
Knots:
This also something that i had a problem with. The best solution for that has been adding protein to my regimen and keeping an eye out on my ends.Pros:
Versitility: Im sure you already know this one. No one can deny the benefits of going from a curly fro to straight within an hour or so.
No restrictions: (I) can pretty much do any style i want at any time, period. You dont have to worry about having a "fresh" relaxer for a certain style/special occasion. Just wash, set, dry and go.
Shrinkage: This is my opinion... shrinkage adds a regal and unique element to tightly curled hair, even in a stretch style. The volume and bounce is beautiful to me. I love it!
Standing out! To me thick curls just seem to compliment black skin and/or features the way no the other style can.
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Rei
New Member
Pros:
-get to wash my hair whenever I like, and then just braid it and leave it. Some people can do this with relaxed hair, but airdrying NEVER worked for me when I was relaxed.
- playing in my hair is so much more fun now that its coily (is this really a pro, haha)
-Healthier hair that has grown longer since I stopped processing it than it ever did relaxed (and I was a relaxed member of LHCF for more than a year)
- no stylists! I never could relax my own hair so I definitely wasn't a do it at home chick.
CONS
-shrinkage will make you think your hair is not growing, even when it is :/
- Hair takes more effort to style, I can't just wake up and brush out my wrap and keep it moving anymore :/ Particularly if you have short natural hair that needs to be stretched and all that jazz
-straightening is always a painful process for me. It's not as easy as it seems to be for others. Blowdrying ALWAYS makes my hair break, and I can't seem to get it straight enough when I flat iron, and if I got to stylists to do it, it looks good but it is expensive for short term results and they always yank through my hair even if I try my best to detangle beforehand.
I do get some SSK's but I just leave them alone...I don't get that many since my hair is ALWAYS stretched and almost never out. (it doesn't look that great out anyway, lol)
-get to wash my hair whenever I like, and then just braid it and leave it. Some people can do this with relaxed hair, but airdrying NEVER worked for me when I was relaxed.
- playing in my hair is so much more fun now that its coily (is this really a pro, haha)
-Healthier hair that has grown longer since I stopped processing it than it ever did relaxed (and I was a relaxed member of LHCF for more than a year)
- no stylists! I never could relax my own hair so I definitely wasn't a do it at home chick.
CONS
-shrinkage will make you think your hair is not growing, even when it is :/
- Hair takes more effort to style, I can't just wake up and brush out my wrap and keep it moving anymore :/ Particularly if you have short natural hair that needs to be stretched and all that jazz
-straightening is always a painful process for me. It's not as easy as it seems to be for others. Blowdrying ALWAYS makes my hair break, and I can't seem to get it straight enough when I flat iron, and if I got to stylists to do it, it looks good but it is expensive for short term results and they always yank through my hair even if I try my best to detangle beforehand.
I do get some SSK's but I just leave them alone...I don't get that many since my hair is ALWAYS stretched and almost never out. (it doesn't look that great out anyway, lol)
jazii
Member
I'm new to being natural. recently had my BC in November 09 and I LOVE THIS POST!!!!
speaking from personal experience. Now right, my biggest PRO of being natural is not having to worry about going to the GYM. I love working out and now I no longer worry about sweating my hair.. It feel great =)
speaking from personal experience. Now right, my biggest PRO of being natural is not having to worry about going to the GYM. I love working out and now I no longer worry about sweating my hair.. It feel great =)
jetbeauty09
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I still have the SSK when my hair is stretched but they don't present a big problem when streched.
Thanks for the reply.
naturally nubian
New Member
I love having natural hair.... here are my reasons why:
Thicker
stronger
darker
shiny
healthy
carefree
I can go swimming without worrying about getting my hair wet..my hair loves water and responds well to it!
The pros are
shrinkage
Need to take extra care to detangle properly
Ensure you get enough mositure
Thicker
stronger
darker
shiny
healthy
carefree
I can go swimming without worrying about getting my hair wet
..my hair loves water and responds well to it!The pros are
shrinkage
Need to take extra care to detangle properly
Ensure you get enough mositure
silvergirl
Well-Known Member
PROS:
variety
healthy hair
thicker hair
curls!!! coils!! waves !! ! oh my
husband loves to play with my hair..
i love to play with my hair
wash an go/ simple to take care of
no worries: bring on the wind and rain!
its unique (around here anyway)
shrinkage: can be fun and shocking to some ppl
even with fine strands i too can looks like i have big hair
CONS:
shrinkage: to show length ( unless your a longlonghairednatural) must flatiron
variety
healthy hair
thicker hair
curls!!! coils!! waves !! ! oh my
husband loves to play with my hair..
i love to play with my hair
wash an go/ simple to take care of
no worries: bring on the wind and rain!
its unique (around here anyway)
shrinkage: can be fun
and shocking to some ppleven with fine strands i too can looks like i have big hair
CONS:
shrinkage: to show length ( unless your a longlonghairednatural) must flatiron
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757diva
New Member
Pros:
I can wash my hair everyday if I chose
I don't have to worry about not having money to buy a relaxer
Cheaper (for mi it is)
Mi man loves natural hair
Cons:
Attitudes from people around you
I have no curls not even a little bit (never had them before relaxers either)
Tangles
Mi hair always looks straight and bushy but soft
I can wash my hair everyday if I chose
I don't have to worry about not having money to buy a relaxer
Cheaper (for mi it is)
Mi man loves natural hair
Cons:
Attitudes from people around you
I have no curls not even a little bit (never had them before relaxers either)
Tangles
Mi hair always looks straight and bushy but soft
dymondgurl
New Member
Going natural has been one of the best things I've done.
My experince have been more postive than negative(some ssk's). I wouldn't change my experinces for anything.
My experince have been more postive than negative(some ssk's). I wouldn't change my experinces for anything.
oooop2
New Member
PROS:
variety
healthy hair
thicker hair
curls!!! coils!! waves !! ! oh my
husband loves to play with my hair..
i love to play with my hair
wash an go/ simple to take care of
no worries: bring on the wind and rain!
its unique (around here anyway)
shrinkage: can be fun
even with fine strands i too can looks like i have big hair
CONS:
shrinkage: to show length ( unless your a longlonghairednatural) must flatiron
I agree...And OMG, I am LOVING watching your growth!!!
LadyRaider
Well-Known Member
Nonie rules.
Junebug D
Well-Known Member
No cons....? Even just the people giving you grief about it is a con. 
There's a lot of pros & cons in my one lonely blog entry.
And here's a little checklist I made for myself of ALL my options when I was considering changing my hair:
Locs:
There's a lot of pros & cons in my one lonely blog entry.
And here's a little checklist I made for myself of ALL my options when I was considering changing my hair:
Locs:
- Pros
- no more breakage
- no more daily styling
- no more detangling
- easy length retention
- Cons
- excessive frizz with frequent washing
- re-tightening sessions (salon dependence?)
- permanent unless I big chop yet again
- Variables
- thickness, fullness
- dandruff getting stuck in them
- Pros
- less severe tangling, knots
- easier daily styling
- easier access to scalp
- aesthetically pleasing to others
- Cons
[*]salon dependence
[*]permanent unless I chop yet again
- Variables
- thickness, fullness
- ease of maintenance
- dryness
- breakage
- Pros
- less tangling
- easier styling
- Cons
[*]salon dependence
[*]expensive
[*]results not as good for virgin hair
[*]takes many applications for full benefit
- Pros
- easier daily styling
- less tangling
- aesthetically pleasing to others
- Cons
- dryness; can't moisturize daily
- easy reversion
- heat damage
- Variables
- breakage increase?
- high-maintenance? time consuming?
- Pros
- wash whenever I please
- moisturize as often as I please
- difficult to mess up beyond repair
- Cons
- breakage
- dryness
- constant tangling
- difficult styling
- time consuming
- constant frizz
TemiLnd
New Member
Mt aunt relaxed my hair at 5 years old, I was natural till I was 20, relaxed for 5 year and now I’m back to natural. My pros & cons:
Pros –
Styling options/more versatile
Healthier, stronger and thicker hair
The WOW factor!!
No more burnt scalp
Less expensive for me cos I keep it simple
Too many to talk about
Cons –
Single strand knots (I will conquer this)
Shrinkage (I don’t mind it so much but I’m looking forward to full ponytail puffs)
Pros –
Styling options/more versatile
Healthier, stronger and thicker hair
The WOW factor!!
No more burnt scalp
Less expensive for me cos I keep it simple
Too many to talk about
Cons –
Single strand knots (I will conquer this)
Shrinkage (I don’t mind it so much but I’m looking forward to full ponytail puffs)
ryanshope
Well-Known Member
NappyHeadDon'tCare here
4AB/Z hair texture 12 months natcha in a month---
PROS:
(For me)
1. EASY OF STYLING---OMG I can't believe how easy it is to now style my hair. I am a twist/braid out bandit and my hair is thriving. When I was relaxed, I was a rollersetting professional---takes about the same time for either style so there is no "additional" time or burden as a natural.
2. NO MORE CHEM BURNS!!!
3. CHEAP-My hair care consistent of water, gel, Rusk Deep Shine conditioner and that is it really---anything else is fluff right now cuz I don't need it.
4. UNIQUE--My curls, my kinks, my hair.
5. No more dependencies on hair stylists---I don't have to wait on Tasha or Sheena to get my hair "did"(not that I did as a relaxed head either.)
6.SENSE of COMMUNITY---I feel like I am in a sisterhood of natural heads..whenever I see a chick with natural hair that is banging, I give her props...that wasn't the case with relaxed hair unless it was a BADASS cut or she had LONG hair.
7. HEALTHIER HAIR---My hair isn't breaking, damaged or mangled.
8. NO MORE STRETCHING---I was relaxing like 3/4 times a year and I still had to flat iron so I was like really, what is the point(might as well go natch).
9. HAIR LOVES WATER---I can go swimming, in the rain whatever...my hair drinks up moisture versus looking like a wet dog.
10. AFRO PUFFS--Yes, this is a pro cuz I have wanted a Penny afro puff forever, now I have one and I am too ecstatic!
11. LOOKS GREAT on CHOCOLATE people!
Now for the CONS...
1. SSKs...don't get them often and compared to the matting of relaxed hair(especially when I was stretching) it isn't that bad---gel and stretching my hair combats this problem nicely though.
2. Time to go "straight"---it is going to be a beast when I do finally straighten my hair(not looking forward to that).
4AB/Z hair texture 12 months natcha in a month---
PROS:
(For me)
1. EASY OF STYLING---OMG I can't believe how easy it is to now style my hair. I am a twist/braid out bandit and my hair is thriving. When I was relaxed, I was a rollersetting professional---takes about the same time for either style so there is no "additional" time or burden as a natural.
2. NO MORE CHEM BURNS!!!
3. CHEAP-My hair care consistent of water, gel, Rusk Deep Shine conditioner and that is it really---anything else is fluff right now cuz I don't need it.
4. UNIQUE--My curls, my kinks, my hair.
5. No more dependencies on hair stylists---I don't have to wait on Tasha or Sheena to get my hair "did"(not that I did as a relaxed head either.)
6.SENSE of COMMUNITY---I feel like I am in a sisterhood of natural heads..whenever I see a chick with natural hair that is banging, I give her props...that wasn't the case with relaxed hair unless it was a BADASS cut or she had LONG hair.
7. HEALTHIER HAIR---My hair isn't breaking, damaged or mangled.
8. NO MORE STRETCHING---I was relaxing like 3/4 times a year and I still had to flat iron so I was like really, what is the point(might as well go natch).
9. HAIR LOVES WATER---I can go swimming, in the rain whatever...my hair drinks up moisture versus looking like a wet dog.
10. AFRO PUFFS--Yes, this is a pro cuz I have wanted a Penny afro puff forever, now I have one and I am too ecstatic!
11. LOOKS GREAT on CHOCOLATE people!
Now for the CONS...
1. SSKs...don't get them often and compared to the matting of relaxed hair(especially when I was stretching) it isn't that bad---gel and stretching my hair combats this problem nicely though.
2. Time to go "straight"---it is going to be a beast when I do finally straighten my hair(not looking forward to that).
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