Well, after a good deep conditioning, if you are going to wet wrap, I suggest a leave in (I use Biosynthesis Phinish and Design Essentials Therapy RX Leave in) and a good wrap foam such as Kera Care or The Jane Carter Solution, those are my favorites. If you are blow drying or air drying, I suggest just a good leave in. I don't add any additional products to my hair before flat ironing. You may find you will not need additional products after depending on the condition of your hair. However, on occasion I will use a light serum (aveda, design essentials silk essentials, the jane carter solution hair serum--->*this one is mostly light essential oils rather than silicone based*. You want to limit the amount of products you use on your hair to allow movement and a natural sheen. Clean ends and well conditioned hair should allow you to do this. I found that after I started taking care of my hair I was able to style with minimal products.