You are the only person who has access to your private messages because your account is password protected. The administration does not have access to your password. To do so, we would have to log on as you, and we can only do that if you give us your password to look at a problem for you. Keep in mind that members do share pm's. So if information is passed around, it's because the messages have been forwarded to other people, who in turn, forward them to someone else. Closed accounts become disabled and unaccessable unless membership is reinstated. Hope that helps.