Please see post #35.
Please continue to pray for this dear family. Thank you to everyone who prayed for them. Each of you are wonderful, indeed.
God bless each of you...beyond words.
Love,
Shimmie
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Original Post from 7/3/2014:
Please Pray for This Darling Child and His Family... Please.
Brayden is only 5 years old and undergoing treatment for cancer. He is a brave little boy...so very brave. Please keep him in your prayers and whatever else God places into your heart to do.
FYI: One of our members here is a close family friend.
Thank you and God bless you.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/aTdy2JrFlXY?rel=0
https://www.youtube.com/embed/OstuNmXLF7E?rel=0
Please continue to pray for this dear family. Thank you to everyone who prayed for them. Each of you are wonderful, indeed.
God bless each of you...beyond words.
Love,
Shimmie
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Original Post from 7/3/2014:
Please Pray for This Darling Child and His Family... Please.
Brayden is only 5 years old and undergoing treatment for cancer. He is a brave little boy...so very brave. Please keep him in your prayers and whatever else God places into your heart to do.
FYI: One of our members here is a close family friend.
Thank you and God bless you.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/aTdy2JrFlXY?rel=0
https://www.youtube.com/embed/OstuNmXLF7E?rel=0
07/03/2014
by Family & Friends
We are coming close to the end of our stay here in Mexico. Part of me is so ready to leave and the other part dreads the transition. The program Brayden is on is a rigorous one and will take a lot of work. This is why part of me dreads leaving.
While I’m so ready to get out of here, I’m not so ready to depart from all of the assistance that is here. I just want to leave this place and return to the states with a fully restored child. It’s the wait that is so hard. God knows what I want but He also knows what I need. Apparently what I need is to continue pressing on in this trial.
It hurts, it blows, but God knows what is best. He knows that my heart sinks when Brayden wets himself (something he never ever does), He knows how I fight back tears when he doesn’t feel like eating or can hardly hold what little food he does eat down, He knows how I feel when I see the tumor on his neck that isn’t getting any smaller, and He knows how we feel when facing many of the other discouraging aspects of this journey.
God knows and He cares. I’ve given Him a timetable that works for me (lol) but His timetable is best for me. So we press on in the struggle. We cry, we encourage each other, and we try to be the best parents we can be to SaVanna, and I’ve got to admit it is challenging. Especially when we are dealing with a crisis with Brayden and SaVanna is asking us to play a game with her. She is so precious and innocent.
She doesn’t really get what’s going on, so as parents we have to put smiles on our faces and give her the time she needs. Yet, despite all of our troubles we know we are truly blessed. We are blessed that our son is not in hospice, we are blessed that we are all here together as a family, we are blessed that God is so merciful to us. The list could go on and on. God is strengthening and preparing us for something. Though we don’t like the wait we will continue to patiently wait on the Lord.
In regard to Brayden, he is doing fine. He’s emotional at times but he still has his personality. He claims he’s tired all of the time and doesn’t want to get out of the bed. He just wants to lay in the bed and regulate everything SaVanna does. He really thinks he’s her dad.
To combat his tendency to want to lay in bed all day we take walks to the beach, and spend a lot of our time on the deck playing games with him. He can walk on his own but he struggles. His frame is small but he’s not losing any weight he’s just not gaining. H
e doesn’t complain about the tumor on his neck but it prevents him from bending his head backwards. He sorta holds his head forward because he really can’t straighten it out too much. He participates in worship, singing with us and very intently listening to the stories. He’s a special kid who is going through a lot. I just want him to have fun again, which I know one day he will.
Now, just a tidbit about Van, he is doing well. He’s stronger than he could’ve ever imagined he would be. If something happens and I just can’t get myself together mentally, he encourages me. It seems as though we are never really struggling at the same time so one of us can hold up the other. What a blessing. Van is so helpful, he does everything he can to assist. Even when it makes Brayden upset.
Van has had to use his physical strength to hold Brayden down for shots. When it’s all said and done Brayden tells us how upset he is that daddy is strong. LOL. Van also takes the fall for everything. Any time Brayden gets a treatment that he doesn’t like, despite the fact that I’m the main culprit, he blames daddy. I’m so glad Van has a tough skin.
Yet, although he’s tough he’s hurting inside. I can tell this thing is wearing on him. Being in a different country in a medical facility with no outlet is a lot. I think he’ll be much better when we return to the states. Actually, he’ll be much better when he gets his son back. So remember to keep him in your prayers as you keep all of us in your prayers.
Finally, one little thing about my SaVanna, she is a TROOPER. She is the sweetest thing you could ever imagine. She’s so helpful and willing to do anything, and I mean anything to help. She told Brayden she would help him wipe his butt. LOL. No Vanna, that won’t be necessary. When I’m praying for Brayden she will chime in, “mommy what about me?” So I’ll have a special prayer for her.
When I tell Brayden that God has a special plan for his life, I’ll hear a “what about me,” in the background, and I let her know that God has blessed her with the gift of being a helper. I believe it’s a real gift. She’s my cuddlebug. Always wanting to lay in the bed with me or hug me up. Just as cheerful and happy as she can be. Everyone going through a struggle needs their own version of SaVanna. She brings so much joy.
P.S. I started writing this post in tears, but as I began to reflect upon our blessings I felt so much better. This is why we must always train our minds to focus on God’s blessings and not what appears to be going wrong.
- See more at: http://www.youcaring.com/medical-fu...den/145711/update/187043#sthash.EJgsXac0.dpuf
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