I did. Twice.
I was in my twenties and he was a loser and the peen was the hugest I had ever seen. It was fun. His nickname was 'ugly.' Horrible person I was.
The other, I was older and we're still friends. Nothing serious either. On and off.
So while I never was in a relationship relationship...I did smash them up.
The second one wasn't worth it though. But he's good people.
Wouldn't do that in a serious relationship or today at my age.
ETA- Let me clarify. They weren't handsome but they had sex appeal. Meaning something attracted me. So maybe my responses don't fit here.
I have. Would never do it again though. You're left being mad with yourself afterward for lowering your standards only for it not to work out in the end.
It's never worth it girl.
An ugly man will treat you as dirty as a handsome man.
And a handsome man will treat you as kind and gentlemanly as an ugly man lol
I would suggest dating more! Or even just talking to strangers more often. Sit at a bar and talk to anyone left and right of you. Take an uber and talk. Just be comfortable around strangers in general because even if they are gorgeous you still need to YOU (because you are gorgeous too! And anyone worth a salt would love to get to know you, promise!)I also should add that I was dating so many guys I wasn't attracted to that I didn't really know how to communicate with the guys I was attracted to. I loved their adoration. Perhaps, it was a control thing. I was hurt early when I was a teenager.
I could be myself with a guy I wasn't attracted to. There was no risk of getting hurt, I could cut them out of my life with no heartache.
Even now, when I see a guy I am attracted to, I feel I don't have normal womanly responses to that man.
I can become paralyzed and sometimes immature in how I deal with that attraction. I am working on it.
My mother taught me absolutely NOTHING about being a woman, femininity, attraction, vulnerability, owning my sensuality/sexuality and how to choose a mate.
I would suggest dating more! Or even just talking to strangers more often. Sit at a bar and talk to anyone left and right of you. Take an uber and talk. Just be comfortable around strangers in general because even if they are gorgeous you still need to YOU (because you are gorgeous too! And anyone worth a salt would love to get to know you, promise!)
I was shy at first until I saw first hand that ugly men have just mastered the art of being the "nice guy". And then they start screwing with you. Since all men are here to court you, just being a juberant spirit, speak graciously and only speak facts. (None of that stupid "I'm not like other women" garbage) but let them know why you are truly you. You want a man to love you for your best real self.
I use to because I was thinking I was "mature" to not be so vain. That didn't work and I refuse to even talk to a guy who I don't find physically attractive anymore. This includes overweight/obese men.Do you date guys who you aren't physically attracted to?
If so, why?
I use to because I was thinking I was "mature" to not be so vain. That didn't work and I refuse to even talk to a guy who I don't find physically attractive anymore. This includes overweight/obese men.
When keeping it humble goes wrong