People who send unsolicited/Sexual photos.

[UniquelyDivine]

Who else has dealt with this? Does it annoy you?


The last few guys I have talked to have sent me random pictures that I didn't ask for, sometimes they are shirtless or just flat out busting out their crayon

I have also noticed that a LOT of men ask me to send them pictures. I feel like if you know what I look like then KEEP IT MOVING! I might send a face pic to be nice but I've run across men who have asked for pics on a consistent basis.

 

[gabulldawg]

This is something I've never dealt with. It's so foreign to me.

 

[nlamr2013]

^same I feel there is a level of utter disrespect to send me a dicpic that I know I didn't ask for. I would definitely cut communication with those dudes

 

[nlamr2013]

Oh lol when they ask for pics be like this girl

 

[Sosa]

Only dudes I knew in undergrad would do that crap.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

Only dudes I knew in undergrad would do that crap.

Nope. These are grown men, it's weird and annoying, I have only had one come out and ask for a sexual pic though .

 

[UniquelyDivine]

This is something I've never dealt with. It's so foreign to me.

Be glad! All this technology has ninjas feeling bold.

 

[kupenda]

I had a ninja ask me just a few hours ago. Fool KIM

 

[MRJ1972]

I have received pics from guys despite me telling them NO I dont want a pic of you!!! No shirt, towel only, etc...These men are a trip!

 

[Prettymetty]

I have only received a few crayon pics in my life. One was from my honey when we first started dating. I dont give off the crayon lover vibe I guess. I demand respect from all men. Respect me or get lost!

 

[DarkJoy]

yep. only men i meet online. i only talk to dudes in their 40s, so its not an age thing. its a them telling what theyre really after thing.

 

[LovelyRo]

I was off the market for a few years and when I started dating again "sending pics" was the new thing. No build up or anything. Just a Hi and then an inappropriate pic. I recently had a guy ask me to send him a "sensual pic" I sent him a real regular pic from IG... He was not happy.

 

[naturalmanenyc]

They are making their intentions clear upfront. Lol

 

[UniquelyDivine]

I was off the market for a few years and when I started dating again "sending pics" was the new thing. No build up or anything. Just a Hi and then an inappropriate pic. I recently had a guy ask me to send him a "sensual pic" I sent him a real regular pic from IG... He was not happy.

Yep that's pretty much my situation, I've only been single a short time but I guess this is what's hot now. I don't mind sending face pics but I know that's their way of building up to something else.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

I had a ninja ask me just a few hours ago. Fool KIM

Smh!!!


I received a "how's your day going" text earlier today that was IMMEDIATELY followed by a shirtless pic. I was sooooo not impressed by what I saw and he had the nerve to ask me if I liked it. Hell naw, keep that mess to yourself.

 

[Kindheart]

I find it embarrassing and a desperate attempt to get my attention . I received more than I wanted and none had the effect desired ,lets put it like that .My reaction is usually *raise eyebrow-eyes roll-smirk-delete *

 

[shasha8685]

I don't get it either. One fool had the nerve to send an unsolicited pic of his peen in the middle of my work day while I was at lunch with colleagues! I deleted the pic and didn't respond. Then a few hours later dude asks what I thought...I told him to never do that again.

What floored me was that dude was in his 30s...when I was in undergrad guys didn't do that. Dude's who are my age don't do that. I don't know where this trend came from.

 

[kaykari]

Have ya'll seen the d*** in a box skit? If not, youtube it. But I truly wonder if these men think we would react like those ladies in the skit when they send those pics

 

[UniquelyDivine]

I don't get it either. One fool had the nerve to send an unsolicited pic of his peen in the middle of my work day while I was at lunch with colleagues! I deleted the pic and didn't respond. Then a few hours later dude asks what I thought...I told him to never do that again. What floored me was that dude was in his 30s...when I was in undergrad guys didn't do that. Dude's who are my age don't do that. I don't know where this trend came from.

I don't understand it either, if I didn't ask for it what makes you think I'm interested?

 

[Hairsnob]

I've had one guy send me one. He first sent me one of him flexing his back muscles while working out to feel me out. I responded back saying nice muscles or something. Then the next pic right after that was like BAM!! here it is!! Full frontal!! I cursed him out about disrespecting me and that was it for him. Disrespectful loser!