MizAvalon
Well-Known Member
I have been doing the online dating thing for quite some time now. I date for a while, then I take little breaks. Just wondering, for online dating specifically, what turns you off when you look at a man's profile?
For me, there are several things.
1. Poor picture quality. It is unreal that in this day and age how common this is. I see so many blurry, "taken in the bathroom mirror" or grainy webcam pics. Seriously, how hard is it to put your digital camera in front of your face and press the button? That's what I do and my pictures are crystal clear.
I also don't care for far away pictures, group pictures where I can't tell who he is or pictures where he is wearing a hat or sunglasses. I want to see a CLEAR, CLOSEUP view of your face.
2. A negative profile. "No Drama or Games", "Only Real Women Need Apply", "Not Looking For A Goldigger". None of that makes me even remotely interested in learning more about you. It just makes you sound like a negative person that enjoys complaining.
3. Sexual references. If you have some sort of sexual username(LuvsBigBootys, LickUAllNite) or you talk about your lovemaking habits in your profile, that is an automatic deletion.
That's all I can think of offhand. How about you? What turns you off from a profile?
For me, there are several things.
1. Poor picture quality. It is unreal that in this day and age how common this is. I see so many blurry, "taken in the bathroom mirror" or grainy webcam pics. Seriously, how hard is it to put your digital camera in front of your face and press the button? That's what I do and my pictures are crystal clear.
I also don't care for far away pictures, group pictures where I can't tell who he is or pictures where he is wearing a hat or sunglasses. I want to see a CLEAR, CLOSEUP view of your face.
2. A negative profile. "No Drama or Games", "Only Real Women Need Apply", "Not Looking For A Goldigger". None of that makes me even remotely interested in learning more about you. It just makes you sound like a negative person that enjoys complaining.
3. Sexual references. If you have some sort of sexual username(LuvsBigBootys, LickUAllNite) or you talk about your lovemaking habits in your profile, that is an automatic deletion.
That's all I can think of offhand. How about you? What turns you off from a profile?