ajoyfuljoy
Well-Known Member
So I was stretching for three months, thinking I'm doing everything right, cowashing and all that jazz. I planned to relax tomorrow, I was just running my fingers through my hair and I noticed a knot. I was like no big deal I'll just work through it, I usually get knots anyway when I stretch
I started feeling all over my head and there are knots all over my head! I think I've got out like 10 of them and I'm afraid to look for more. My 4a hair is very coily and it twist the relax strands as it grows and it's like my hair tangled all by itself!
I know I can't relax tomorrow b/c my scalp is tender from all the tugging and pulling, but then his brings to mind thoughts of transitioning. Maybe I should just cut off the relaxed stuff and let my natural hair be but I'm afraid of more knots
I just don't know

I know I can't relax tomorrow b/c my scalp is tender from all the tugging and pulling, but then his brings to mind thoughts of transitioning. Maybe I should just cut off the relaxed stuff and let my natural hair be but I'm afraid of more knots

I just don't know