tlbaby23
Active Member
Im only 22, single female, and back in February i went through a tough break up n im now getting back into the dating game n i feel like its different than what im use to. Im not looking for a relationship or a smash buddy, just a boo thang haha
Today at work i saw a HOT guy, tall, handsome, athletic build n we were both standing there waiting for something n made eye contact a couple of times. I can tell he wanted to say something but never did n I was thinking well maybe I should say something to him first but I chickened out n never said anything to him. As I was walking away I was like dammit I should go back n say something so about 10 mins later when I built my courage I went back to where he was but he was already gone I was upset cuz he was gorgeous !
But in my mind I feel like the guy should come up to the girl n if he doesn’t come up to you then maybes hes not interested but after talking to a lot of my male friends they say they usually wait till the girl comes up to them because it’s a turn on. Im just not use to that because im old school so i like the guy to come up to me
My questions:
1. Whats your opinion on it all?
2. How do you build up the courage to say something first without it being awkward
3. WHAT DO YOU SAY!? (as simple as it seems Its harder when ur actually there)
Today at work i saw a HOT guy, tall, handsome, athletic build n we were both standing there waiting for something n made eye contact a couple of times. I can tell he wanted to say something but never did n I was thinking well maybe I should say something to him first but I chickened out n never said anything to him. As I was walking away I was like dammit I should go back n say something so about 10 mins later when I built my courage I went back to where he was but he was already gone I was upset cuz he was gorgeous !
But in my mind I feel like the guy should come up to the girl n if he doesn’t come up to you then maybes hes not interested but after talking to a lot of my male friends they say they usually wait till the girl comes up to them because it’s a turn on. Im just not use to that because im old school so i like the guy to come up to me
My questions:
1. Whats your opinion on it all?
2. How do you build up the courage to say something first without it being awkward
3. WHAT DO YOU SAY!? (as simple as it seems Its harder when ur actually there)