Nothing keeps a man, a man keeps himself.

[tenjoy]

I was having a conversation with a guy about relationships, etc. He mentioned something about pretty, smart, long hair (I know, I know ), etc,. I (jokingly ) responded by saying those things don't keep a man. He then says firmly "Nothing keeps a man, a man keeps himself".

Your thoughts?

 

[carcajada]

He's right. Every guy makes his own decisions about what moves he makes inside and outside of a relationship. Only he is responsible for those decisions too.

 

[UrbainChic]

I was having a conversation with a guy about relationships, etc. He mentioned something about pretty, smart, long hair (I know, I know ), etc,. I (jokingly ) responded by saying those things don't keep a man. He then says firmly "Nothing keeps a man, a man keeps himself".

Your thoughts?

THAT IS THE TRUTH!

 

[Kindheart]

He's right. Every guy makes his own decisions about what moves he makes inside and outside of a relationship. Only he is responsible for those decisions too.

thanks for the explanation,somehow that line doesnt make sense on its own ...

 

[MD_Lady]

I agree 100% and wish more women did.

 

[firecracker]

He is right. If someone wants to stay, move on, cheat or whatever while in a relationship its their own decision. No one or thing can change an already determined mine.

Ya'll forgot its about Loyalty and its a huge umbrella. LOL Ok yeah I quoted dumb arsed Chrissy. LOL

 

[Fine 4s]

The only thing that governs his actions are his values.

 

[ladylibra_30]

Yes. (this is why I also believe that a woman can't steal a man away from another woman)

 

[tenjoy]

The only thing that governs his actions are his values.

i like this.

 

[ElizaBlue]

Totally agree.

 

[BackToMyRoots]

Neither man nor woman can be kept. As humans we possess the ability to exercise free will and make choices for ourselves. However, there are actions you can take that will drive people away and conversely bring them closer to you. If a person is not, do not intend to be and has never been committed to you, there is nothing you can do to make them WANT to stay.

 

[southerncitygirl]

i'm tired of women changing and comprising who they are to keep or attract a man. if a man was attracted to you because of certain qualities and you change up those things to coddle him, i believe he loses respect for you.

here's a wonderful yt vids relevant to this very topic:
http://youtu.be/beretik64uo
http://youtu.be/V3B8zY5kG7E

we must have self love, respect, and esteem otherwise we attract people who are not good for us.

 

[Kindheart]

Neither man nor woman can be kept. As humans we possess the ability to exercise free will and make choices for ourselves. However, there are actions you can take that will drive people away and conversely bring them closer to you. If a person is not, do not intend to be and has never been committed to you, there is nothing you can do to make them WANT to stay.

AMEN ! that s the truth *saving this post *.