No urge to color...

Yes, it has. Maybe your hormones are off like mine. I haven't colored in 3 weeks and that is not normal for me. I just want to sleep all day and night. I don't like having to use the progesterone cream. My maca powder is not working anymore.
 
Glad I'm not the only one.I think it's been a month or 1 1/2 month. I've lost count. When DH initiates I play sleep or say something foul to kill the mood
 
Meh. It's always been an issue for me. I need to find a good supplier of some maca - and the extra loot to buy it.

Does progesterone cream help with the coloring blues, Lucie? I might still have some of that in my cabinet.... :scratchch But by the gods, I don't need to be any moodier than I am, either. *sigh*

Husbands and their damn needs.
 
JustKiya said:
Meh. It's always been an issue for me. I need to find a good supplier of some maca - and the extra loot to buy it.

Does progesterone cream help with the coloring blues, Lucie? I might still have some of that in my cabinet.... :scratchch But by the gods, I don't need to be any moodier than I am, either. *sigh*

Husbands and their damn needs.
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It sure does but my stupid body grew immune to it! I am running out of time to color because Aunt Flo will be here for the weekend. I feel bad because I know my hubby feels rejected and ugly but I rather sleep. When I color finally I wonder why I haven't been wanting to do it more and fall back into the vicious cycle. I was going to try Spanish Fly this weekend but am scared of the ingredients.
 
janaq2003 said:
Glad I'm not the only one.I think it's been a month or 1 1/2 month. I've lost count. When DH initiates I play sleep or say something foul to kill the mood
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Do you have any other underlying issues that can be affecting your mood? Stress? Unruly kids? Difficult job? I think stress is a factor for me as well.
 
I take zoloft. I know that has something to do with it partly but then again I'm leaning toward this hormonal imbalance thing. I don't talk about my private life in public but I felt it a good idea to shoot this out there to you ladies. I know my DH feels rejected. What's this about the progesterone and maca pills.....
 
Lucie said:
It sure does but my stupid body grew immune to it! I am running out of time to color because Aunt Flo will be here for the weekend. I feel bad because I know my hubby feels rejected and ugly but I rather sleep. When I color finally I wonder why I haven't been wanting to do it more and fall back into the vicious cycle. I was going to try Spanish Fly this weekend but am scared of the ingredients.
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Hrrrm, I might have to try that, again. I'll start tonight. *nod*

And girl, I'm right there with you on the bolded. *sigh*

And yeah, I'm stressed and maybe just a touch depressed, too.

Yeah, I've heard enough bad reviews of Spanish Fly to not wanna try it.

janaq2003 said:
I take zoloft. I know that has something to do with it partly but then again I'm leaning toward this hormonal imbalance thing. I don't talk about my private life in public but I felt it a good idea to shoot this out there to you ladies. I know my DH feels rejected. What's this about the progesterone and maca pills.....
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Not sure about progesterone, as that's a new one to me, too - I was using it for fertility reasons. Maca is supposed to help balance and regulate your hormones. :yep:
 
Wow.. so this really does happen. My brother was telling me that his wife doesn't want to color any more... I thought it may have been his approach and gave him some romantic ideas for my sis in law.. but nope.. he said it didn't work.. and it's been almost 4 months since they have colored... He refuses to initiate it....therefore they don't.

I thought he was really making this up to get some inside pointers on how to be more romantic.. but i guess not :/
 
afrorican said:
Wow.. so this really does happen. My brother was telling me that his wife doesn't want to color any more... I thought it may have been his approach and gave him some romantic ideas for my sis in law.. but nope.. he said it didn't work.. and it's been almost 4 months since they have colored... He refuses to initiate it....therefore they don't.

I thought he was really making this up to get some inside pointers on how to be more romantic.. but i guess not :/
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Well, I only speak for myself but I think that women are doing far too much. I don't have any children yet and can't even think what that would do our coloring situation. I get up early. Work out. Plan meals. Go to work. Drive an hour. Heat up the food. Clean up the house. Take out the trash. Surf. And by the time for coloring, I am like. :nono: :wallbash: The weird thing is that I feel colorful (trying to keep it clean) during the day. Maybe I need to color before I zonk out but I am working!
 
JustKiya said:
Hrrrm, I might have to try that, again. I'll start tonight. *nod*

And girl, I'm right there with you on the bolded. *sigh*

And yeah, I'm stressed and maybe just a touch depressed, too.

Yeah, I've heard enough bad reviews of Spanish Fly to not wanna try it.



Not sure about progesterone, as that's a new one to me, too - I was using it for fertility reasons. Maca is supposed to help balance and regulate your hormones. :yep:
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Progesterone balances your hormones, increases your fertility and boosts your libido. :yep: Spanish Fly has so many bad reviews like you said but what other options does one have? I saw a FEMALE Extenze commercial and thought about it, but I HATE drugs. I saw some leaf/extract called HORNY GOAT or something like that, maybe I'll try it. I am a little scared to take any libido enhancers because I am scared to turn into some sex feen, although I am sure is not possible.
 
Lucie said:
Well, I only speak for myself but I think that women are doing far too much. I don't have any children yet and can't even think what that would do our coloring situation. I get up early. Work out. Plan meals. Go to work. Drive an hour. Heat up the food. Clean up the house. Take out the trash. Surf. And by the time for coloring, I am like. :nono: :wallbash: The weird thing is that I feel colorful (trying to keep it clean) during the day. Maybe I need to color before I zonk out but I am working!
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I say try coloring in the morning. When I was married I was zonked out at the end of the day. Hubby was being assholy and in the morning I just jumped him. Might as well make good use of what natural gave him in the morning.
 
ThickHair said:
I say try coloring in the morning. When I was married I was zonked out at the end of the day. Hubby was being assholy and in the morning I just jumped him. Might as well make good use of what natural gave him in the morning.
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True, this is what I've been doing - it's usually the only way to get a lil sumthin sumthin in.....
 
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Gotcha! I think i was lost because we have lots of coloring going on in our house. Most initiated by me.

Lucky lady!

Girl isn't she.
 
Wow...this has been a big problem for me since I had my baby. I know its a combination of stress, the kids, hormones, depression. I just bought some vitamins from GNC to try, but I cant take them til my baby is off the breast. I will let you ladies know if I get some results. Good Luck!!
 
janaq2003 said:
Those of you who have been married for 5y or greater, has this been an issue for you?
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that siggy is WRONG!

as for the OP question....I was married eight years....yes, it's an issue but you get creative. I had no problem drawing him back in. Get hot on your own and you will find that he will be sniffing behind you so much you'll have to beat him back with a stick.
 
janaq2003 said:
I take zoloft. I know that has something to do with it partly but then again I'm leaning toward this hormonal imbalance thing. I don't talk about my private life in public but I felt it a good idea to shoot this out there to you ladies. I know my DH feels rejected. What's this about the progesterone and maca pills.....
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Speak with your doctor. The Zoloft may be the culprit. Speak with your doctor asap.
 
A good way to boost your libido is decrease your soy intake. It mimics the estrogen women make naturally, and in return makes the testosterone imbalanced. Increasing our testosterone increases our drive to color. I suggest seeking natural ways to do it, but not for an extended amount of time. Don't want any of you ladies growing beards and getting deep voices ;)
 
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