TBeBe said:Great challenge!!! I haven't been to a stylist in 15 years, and that was just for a wash, deep condition and wrap. The last stylist I went to chopped off 4" and complained that my hair was too thick. Too thick for what? She said it was too thick to work with. That's just lazy. I wish there were more stylists like luvlonghair & balisi, but there aren't - especially in Dallas. Those two are rare diamonds.
Although I'm married to a stylist now he totally understands why I don't go. He works in a complex where there are AA stylists, and he hears sizzlin' & smells chemicals every time he walks by. Plus, their hair is to' up.
He gets a kick out of watching me do my own hair and he's learning about highly textured hair. People always ask if he takes care of my hair, and I just say, "No, he just buys my products." Sap Moss Line is on my xmas list.
He has almost waist-length hair, so he respects his clients with long hair and those trying to grow it out. That respect is what keeps his client base, as I'm sure is what keeps clients coming back to balisi & luvlonghair.
Another reason I will continue to stay away from stylists is that I'm not arguing with someone I'm paying. Period. In any situation where someone is paying another for a service, customers want to be listened to and have their wishes respected. Provided the wishes don't put anyone's health in danger, there shouldn't be any hesitation to do it. Last I checked, not trimming ends didn't lead to the fall of mankind.
shani325 said:Count me in ladies, I will have to go for a relaxer, but other than that I prefer to style my own hair. I simply cannot stand going to salons, wish I had the courage (and skills) to do my own relaxer.
Thank you e$h. We understand, and we're sorry about you ladies' terrible experiences. I'd make it up to you all if I could, and I'm sure luvlonghair would too.e$h said:No offense to you luvlonghair and balisi . I think we're just fed up with the bad stylists out there.
Me, too.shani325 said:Count me in ladies, I will have to go for a relaxer, but other than that I prefer to style my own hair. I simply cannot stand going to salons, wish I had the courage (and skills) to do my own relaxer.