I know that this true, and should be practiced, but I find it extremely hard.
I have been so depressed over my ex, and having a lack of direction in life.
I know that I should "praise God" and act happy go lucky, but I hurt, and I know that this is unattractive and a sign of weakness and lack of spiritual growth, but I find it really hard to "praise God" when I am hurting and so confused. I pray, read the word, and go to Church, but I do not feel the peace that I know that I should feel. I know that I should feel as if God is in control, and everything will work out the way that he wants, but I feel like a fraud and and a weak Christian.I find myself angry, because there are people that are very strong, and no matter happens to them they always "praise God" and do not put too much stock in their personal issues. I feel as if I make a big deal out of little issues, that other people are able to get over with so quickly. My ex was very strong in his faith and when we broke up his response was God will find me better, while I have been heartbroken and have not been able to bounce back like he has.