movingforward13
I do what I want...
First time poster and I need ALL the help I can get.
I stopped relaxing around April 2013. Before that, I was braiding because I worked out every day, to lose weight for my wedding. My wedding was December 2012 and I relaxed my hair for that. Two weeks later found out my new husband was sleeping with a Temple med student after he got a new job in Philly- lost more weight to depression and eventually my long healthy hair. I wasn't caring for it correctly out of sheer ignorance and laziness about oiling it.
Now two years later, I am ready to regrow my hair but I don't know where to start. Relaxed, it is to the bottom of my neck (still learning the terms) but after a while my hair breaks off in the back. So April 2013, I started individual braiding and occasionally weaving. But it is so expensive. $175- 200 every six weeks- not to mention, they aren't taking care of MY hair in the process. I just got a Senegalese twist two weeks ago, but I decided after I take them out, I will be wearing my own hair. This is scary for me but I am going to do it.
Help me learn please. I am now using Indian hemp oil every 1-2 days to oil my hair while it is in the twists. Also using olive oil sheen. I am taking vitamins for the biotin. My hair does well growing in individual braids- growing about an half an inch every six weeks in the braids but I am sure most of that is damaged. I was thinking of relaxing after I take the twists out so I can get the damage accessed and cut off. I am not ready to do a big chop- not sure if one is necessary. How do I figure my hair type? I am afraid to do my hair myself because it is so hard to detangle but I am ready to learn. I am also in a new area (relocated to DC/ MD). I don't know where to go to get my own hair done.
It is funny, all my life I was told black women shouldn't wash their hair often so I thought this was normal. Now I see, they were wrong and we must use conditioner, limit heat, and moisturize *sigh* all confuzzled.
Attached is a pic of my hair washed and blowed dried straightened right before they twisted my hair two weeks ago. My goals here are to learn from you knowledgeable ladies, gain confidence to wear my own hair, and grow my hair to my lower mid back.
I stopped relaxing around April 2013. Before that, I was braiding because I worked out every day, to lose weight for my wedding. My wedding was December 2012 and I relaxed my hair for that. Two weeks later found out my new husband was sleeping with a Temple med student after he got a new job in Philly- lost more weight to depression and eventually my long healthy hair. I wasn't caring for it correctly out of sheer ignorance and laziness about oiling it.
Now two years later, I am ready to regrow my hair but I don't know where to start. Relaxed, it is to the bottom of my neck (still learning the terms) but after a while my hair breaks off in the back. So April 2013, I started individual braiding and occasionally weaving. But it is so expensive. $175- 200 every six weeks- not to mention, they aren't taking care of MY hair in the process. I just got a Senegalese twist two weeks ago, but I decided after I take them out, I will be wearing my own hair. This is scary for me but I am going to do it.
Help me learn please. I am now using Indian hemp oil every 1-2 days to oil my hair while it is in the twists. Also using olive oil sheen. I am taking vitamins for the biotin. My hair does well growing in individual braids- growing about an half an inch every six weeks in the braids but I am sure most of that is damaged. I was thinking of relaxing after I take the twists out so I can get the damage accessed and cut off. I am not ready to do a big chop- not sure if one is necessary. How do I figure my hair type? I am afraid to do my hair myself because it is so hard to detangle but I am ready to learn. I am also in a new area (relocated to DC/ MD). I don't know where to go to get my own hair done.
It is funny, all my life I was told black women shouldn't wash their hair often so I thought this was normal. Now I see, they were wrong and we must use conditioner, limit heat, and moisturize *sigh* all confuzzled.
Attached is a pic of my hair washed and blowed dried straightened right before they twisted my hair two weeks ago. My goals here are to learn from you knowledgeable ladies, gain confidence to wear my own hair, and grow my hair to my lower mid back.