I've lurked here for a long time and decided to join last month. I honestly thought you guys were crazy at first for stretching relaxers since my sister-in-law (who is a hairdresser) said anyone who goes longer than 6 weeks is asking for their hair to fall out. It so happened that my current hairdresser's husband was ill and in the hospital and I was forced to wait 12 weeks to relax. I followed the advice I saw on here about conditioner washes and moisturizing and my hair didnt break or fall out like I thought it would. My sister-in-law was so wrong and I feel bad for thinking you guys were crazy. Please accept my apologies.