Welcome! You should check out some of the relaxed threads. Some of my staples are: S-curl & Elasta QP Mango Butter as a moisturizer. For shampoos and conditioners, I really like As I Am sulfate free shampoo and conditioner. As far as determining your hair type, can you post some pics of your NG w/o product? It might be a little difficult determining your hair type sense your hair is relaxed but if you have enough NG some of the more experienced ladies might be able to help.
Good Luck with your journey!