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Thanks ladies :hugs: I'm just so excited about what the next 3, 6, 9 and 12 months will bring. Congratulations to all the ladies still transitioning. It's tough, but remember, a needed break (braids, twists, weave, etc.) can see you thru. Don't be afraid to take breaks throughout.

Subscribing to this thread b/c I need all the management tips I can get. :grin:
 
Im so over transitioning! its been almost 18 months (2 more weeks)! I'm ready to enjoy my hair!

So why dont I just go ahead and bc?

Well the front is crazy and if I cut it now it'll be funky layers (really short in front long in back). My hair is holding me hostage! I snip the front at least once every 2 weeks... I have so much relaxer left in the front. The back has less than a half inch... this is some bull!

Sorry just needed to vent...
 
jreagins said:
Im so over transitioning! its been almost 18 months (2 more weeks)! I'm ready to enjoy my hair!

So why dont I just go ahead and bc?

Well the front is crazy and if I cut it now it'll be funky layers (really short in front long in back). My hair is holding me hostage! I snip the front at least once every 2 weeks... I have so much relaxer left in the front. The back has less than a half inch... this is some bull!

Sorry just needed to vent...
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Wow, 18 months good for you. I think I'll have to go that long too, I need at least SL natural hair before I can BC anything. Do you have any photos of your hair now?
 
I have a lil broken spot behind my left ear right at the line of demarcation and I don't like it :nono: I know it's from pulling it back all the time, but it was also a wake up call. I really don't want to cut too much this week, but I think I may have her take it back up to bsl just on gp. That'll be a nice mini chop. I guess I won't be doing buns and stuff for a while either. I did a Southerntease bun today and that seems okay. Gotta dig in the crates for more protective styles I guess. It's about to be too hot for rollersets.
 
I love your hair and progress and commend you on transitioning for this long! I think I know what you mean about your hair in front, mine is definitely growing at a slower rate than the rest of my hair.

KUTGW! You're an inspiration to many!
jreagins said:
Im so over transitioning! its been almost 18 months (2 more weeks)! I'm ready to enjoy my hair!

So why dont I just go ahead and bc?

Well the front is crazy and if I cut it now it'll be funky layers (really short in front long in back). My hair is holding me hostage! I snip the front at least once every 2 weeks... I have so much relaxer left in the front. The back has less than a half inch... this is some bull!

Sorry just needed to vent...
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BlondeByDesire said:
I need help with the trimming/cutting process .... I'm scared I will jack my hair up. Any advice?
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I actually have the same issue ladies so any advice would be great, even though I got scissor happy the other day. I trimmed off all the crappy ends but don't know how great a job I did as I didn't straigten it. Is it best to trim/cutt wet, dry, straight or just natural?
 
BlondeByDesire said:
Wow, 18 months good for you. I think I'll have to go that long too, I need at least SL natural hair before I can BC anything. Do you have any photos of your hair now?
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Hair porn eh? heres your fix:lachen:I dont have any pix of the front that I spoke of but these are from the past week...

CHOP STICK BUN
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HAIR W/ CONDITIONER
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BANANA CLIP (PINNED TO THE SIDE)
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ROLLERSET 3-31-09
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jreagins said:
Im so over transitioning! its been almost 18 months (2 more weeks)! I'm ready to enjoy my hair!

So why dont I just go ahead and bc?

Well the front is crazy and if I cut it now it'll be funky layers (really short in front long in back). My hair is holding me hostage! I snip the front at least once every 2 weeks... I have so much relaxer left in the front. The back has less than a half inch... this is some bull!

Sorry just needed to vent...
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My hair is the same way. :nono: The back is practically natural and the front is practically relaxed. Every time I think about the BC I imagine some kind of kinky mullet beast. My hair in the front is looser though, so maybe with the shrinkage in the back it would even out.. not about to snip and find out though.
 
Soliel185 said:
My hair is the same way. :nono: The back is practically natural and the front is practically relaxed. Every time I think about the BC I imagine some kind of kinky mullet beast. My hair in the front is looser though, so maybe with the shrinkage in the back it would even out.. not about to snip and find out though.
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Ladies, my hair is the same natural in the back I wonder why the growth is so different. I'm in for the long hall because so many other have been successful without the bc.
 
jreagins said:
Im so over transitioning! its been almost 18 months (2 more weeks)! I'm ready to enjoy my hair!

So why dont I just go ahead and bc?

Well the front is crazy and if I cut it now it'll be funky layers (really short in front long in back). My hair is holding me hostage! I snip the front at least once every 2 weeks... I have so much relaxer left in the front. The back has less than a half inch... this is some bull!

Sorry just needed to vent...
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I bet your hair look fine. I cant wait to get about 6 month into my stretch. This time i hope i could last a year. I cut the last time at 5 months
 
jreagins said:
Hair porn eh? heres your fix:lachen:I dont have any pix of the front that I spoke of but these are from the past week...
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Your hair looks really nice and healthy. Do what ever you feel is best for you hair goals are a flexible thing as long as you do your best to reach them. I understand the slow front, my hair is the same but it lacks any real curl definition and looks like a big semi-wavey frizz ball
brebre928 said:
UPDATE: 3 months and goin strong...:yay:, I know a lot of ladies on here have been transitioning much looooonger than I have and 3 months is nothing compared to some, but I'm proud of myself for makin it this far and not turning around. YAAAAAY!

Co-washing, blow drying and Flat ironing are my new BFF's
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Congrats on your first 3 months. Time really flies next you'll be amazed at your 6 months. Keep up the good work.

GeechyGurl said:
I just (prematurely) big chopped. I only meant to trim, but my hand had a life of its own, and I do not look good with shorter hair. I transitioned for a little over a year and planned to wait until Sept. 09 (my b-day). However, now that I've transitioned, I'm glad the relaxed ends are gone. I can focus on growing longer, stronger hair instead of managing two different textures. I have individuals in and will continue to get braids until the end of the year. No more heat, YAY!

I'm just glad I hung in there. It was worth it.
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Congrats on your BC.
 
Soliel185 said:
My hair is the same way. :nono: The back is practically natural and the front is practically relaxed. Every time I think about the BC I imagine some kind of kinky mullet beast. My hair in the front is looser though, so maybe with the shrinkage in the back it would even out.. not about to snip and find out though.
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:lachen:thats what i invision for myself as well!:lachen:
 
Vonnieluvs08 said:
Your hair looks really nice and healthy. Do what ever you feel is best for you hair goals are a flexible thing as long as you do your best to reach them. I understand the slow front, my hair is the same but it lacks any real curl definition and looks like a big semi-wavey frizz ballquote]


thats what i have too! twist-outs are helping them blend though
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I'll have to go through this thread, but I think that I'm gonna transition! Sorta scary because I have so many different textures on this head that I havent dealt with in a long time (and my texture has changed some since). But I am looking forward to the change.

I have been texlaxed for a few years and some areas barely processed, so I am used to dealing with the kink.

Btw, I am almost 19 weeks post.
 
CinnaMizz said:
I'll have to go through this thread, but I think that I'm gonna transition! Sorta scary because I have so many different textures on this head that I havent dealt with in a long time (and my texture has changed some since). But I am looking forward to the change.

I have been texlaxed for a few years and some areas barely processed, so I am used to dealing with the kink.

Btw, I am almost 19 weeks post.
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Nice.... welcome :-) 19 weeks post is a good place to start :-)
 
I'm here...a part of me just wants to chop it all off right now. But I think I'm just going to continue with rollersets and updos. I want to transition for a least a year. I can't believe how long some of you ladies have been doing this! Hopefully the time will fly.
 
Hi, still going strong...i'm used to my routine at this point, disappointed with a few areas that are damaged at my nape. once upon a time, my hair was soo thick, it was noticeable, but i'm working on that.

thinking about cornrowing my hair and donning a wig for the summer and leaving my hair a-lone for a good three months. i'm kinda self-conscious about extensions, wigs and stuff, so we'll see how it goes. i mentioned it to my sister and she immediately went on the hunt for me, lol~ she's a pro...i think this will be best option so that i can still cowash, apply my treatments and go heatless for 3 months straight, and still look gawjus in my summer attire...decisions decisions...
 
I bought my first wig yesterday and I LOVE IT. Since I now have a wig, I think I may be able to hold out on relaxing. I have to admit, the creamy crack has been calling my name.
 
Hello. This will maybe be my third time trying to transition. I have a goal of 6 months at least before I cut (if I can't take it anymore). Otherwise, I will just be cutting one inch every three months. We'll see which route works.

I'm just going to style my hair every week b/c I get bored with buns. Well they are better now b/c I have bangs, so that helps.

I'm seven weeks post now with a long way to go. Wish me luck ladies!

Last relaxer Feb. 20th

Aug. 21st will be six months.
 
Hello ladies!! I have decided to transition!! I am 17 weeks post and plan to do the BC November 2010 (if I dont get the urge to do it in 09)!! I was unsure about whether I was going to do it but with the encouragement and motivation from black_beauty22 and my fiance' I am ready now! Although I know I am up for a challenge I cant wait to see my progress because FAILURE IS NOT AN OPTION!!
 
Lady Semo, that pic of your hair was a true inspiration! I've toying with the idea of relaxing i'm having breakage issues.... i'm not sure what to do next. I've done protein, deep condish steamed, ceramide treatment, done an acv rinse and still! the breakage ! i can't seem to keep moisture in any ideas? anyone
 
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