ajoyfuljoy
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I don't use heat a lot. (well I guess "a lot" is based on one's opinion) I blow dry, hot comb and curl with marcel irons once every two weeks. My stylist does this, AND I do it when I can't go to her. I don't damage it because we both know how to manage the heat and because nothing touches my hair (no more heat, or even comb) until the next wash.
I'm transitioning progressively, so the relaxed ends are snipped off as often as my ends need trimming, (so far it's been every three months). I see my natural texture every single time my hair gets wet, and it's noticeably different from the stringy relaxed part. This Saturday will be one year :woohoo2: and my hair is as healthy as ever.
As for me, I've always embraced my hair... even when it was relaxed so I'm transitioning for health (not to make a statement - even though there's nothing wrong with that). I plan to wear my hair straight mostly and as it grows longer I plan to wear it textured. So sometimes I'll look and sometimes I'll look My siggy shows how much I love my hair!
I love this. I know several people who aren't really into hair and they transitioned this way simply because their stylist suggested it. They are straight naturals and have thick, luscious, shiny, healthy hair.
I heard that some people can get heat damaged from just one heat process, so that's why I was asking. Right now im transitioning and since I started I have used heat twice , and the flat iron did not touch my new growth at all !
I just find it amazing that women would transition to natural and use heat to keep it straight all the time , it's like what's the sense...but then if it is for the health then .. i guess.
Everybody has different reasons for going natural. I don't think it's fair to judge one by the other. We are all different people with different opinions.
I just find it amazing that women would transition to natural and use heat to keep it straight all the time , it's like what's the sense...but then if it is for the health then .. i guess.
It's simple, chemicals weakened and thinned me out over the decades, no chemicals have allowed my hair to be thick again and retain growth while still wearing it straight. Whether relaxed or natural, goals and methods to achieve those goals come a dime a dozen - just like hair types. Most won't make sense if one doesn't have the same goals. If you try to figure it out, it will just confuse you more.[/QUOTE]
That is one of the reasons I am transitioning - along with having the option of wearing my natural texture if I choose. My relaxed hair isn't thin per say, but I remember how crazy thick my natural hair was as a child. I want to go back to that.
Exactly, it's a guess. Okay throw out the goal concept but be reminded that all hair is different. In short, heat is not damaging MY hair. Depends on who you ask. There are just as many fotkis and youtubers & members here that press and curl and are natural. Pinkskates being one and Irresistable another ( and she presses her hair while damp) and both have nearly butt length hair. It's not complex.... again it all depends on who you ask and that's with everything on this board. Luckily, I can have straight undamaged hair AND turn around the next week and wear it curly.... non damaged. Hope this helps a little.
heat used to damage my hair. Now that I have learned so much from the boards, I believe I could successfully use heat once a week at home and be healthy.
I'm going to embrace my natural hair by not getting relaxers anymore. My hair is relaxed now and I use heat on the regular and its healthy. Im simply transitioning because Im tired of getting touch ups and just want to be done with all the work that comes with being relaxed. I like to wear my hair straight, so I will continue to do so.
Yup, that is me. I am tired of the relaxers, would like relaxer free hair and the freedom to wear it however I want