(((hugs))) thanks ladies. I've CW before but my hair got all tangled and what not BUT I didn't detangle in the shower. I detangled when I got out the shower so perhaps the shower detangling was the much needed step I missed.
Do you all pretty much bun thereafter or style in another way?
i do not detangle each and every time i cowash, but this is because i cowash every day or two, and that would be a lot of manipulation. if you do feel the need to detangle, do it in the shower, most definitely.
i noticed that you said your hair tangles easily....have you ever tried oil rinsing? they make my hair soooo easy to finger comb, even after DAYS of not detangling. then there's the shine....OMG! i rarely lose a strand if i oil rinse first, which is amazing for my fine hair. if not, here are the steps:
*rinse hair
*add oils, let sit for however long you please (i have done 5 minutes, i have done 45 minutes)
*rinse with HOT water
*cowash to absorb excess oil
*detangle HERE, with conditioner still in your hair
*rinse with cool water to seal cuticle
any style you normally do after washing and DCing can be done on freshly cowashed hair. i have been wet bunning lately, but this is only because i am in the summer wet bun challenge. (i do this on damp hair, soaking up most of the water with a t-shirt.) you can airdry and style as usual -- WNGs, braids for a braidout, twists for a twistout, etc -- or you can rollerset, blowdry, etc.