Foxgove I have been playing wit hthis for awhile. Here are the two ways that I have found.
Method one: co-wash and rinse only a little. oil the ends and twist. This is my old method. it works for a while and if you use a moisture conditioner it turns out soft.
Method two (current): mix liquid leave-in (using AO egyptian henna shine rinse), water, and setting lotion in a bottle. After dc/wash part hair into four sections and spray section with solution. then use cream detangers (I use afro detangler which I bought a long time ago the large size) then french braid the section putting JBCO on the ends. repeat 3 more times. I loosy rebraid at night cause it also me to detangle and if I don't knotty mess. I workout 7 days a week and my hair stays fresh. I will sometime rewet in the middle of the week. But I don't aways. I think the keys is rebraiding/twisting. Erstwhile I did only twist out but I have to make 8 to 10 twist were now I just do four braids.