Yes miss lady slow down and take a breath!!! lol!! You can try clarifying/chelating on your next wash, I do this once a month as I co wash daily... I agree on the aphogee and nexxus emergencee after you get your mositure balance back up... Remember keeping it simple and with little manipulation you will see results.... Also on the emergencee, I let mine dry hard on my hair like aphogee..... Good luck