I went to my stylist for a touch up about a week ago. She sees me and says "that's all your hair has grown?" That ticked me off right there because I have been getting good growth. But since I only see her for touch ups I guess to her it seems like a really long time. Anyway, she starts going on and on saying "You need to come weekly for wash and sets, condition You only come when you need perm!...I have specials on Monday, Tuesday $15" Now that price does sound good but I'm looking at her like I have a regular Mon-Fri 9-5 and why should I need to go every week, I wash and condition my own hair every week and I co wash 2-3 times a week although I'm cutting that because it's getting cold. So I explain this to her and tell her what I do weekly which I have already explained to her before. Guess she forgot because she nods like she's a little surprised that I know what I'm talking about. She keeps her mouth shut while I brag about my regimen. And suddenly she's singing my new growths praises. "Oh yeah, nice growth here, a little dry today but very nice. Looks healthy. It goes on like this until I tell her she is the only one that uses heat on my hair. Most of the time I will air dry. Her jaw drops. And just like that, my hair is back to an abomination. "No, no no you cannot air dry. That is not good. You have to come every week definitely now!" What the heck is that about? After she flat ironed my hair you had to see how fast I ran out of that place! I get spooked easily and I don't think I'm going back. I watched her like a hawk to make sure I could do the relaxer myself in a few months. I'll be practicing with conditioner until then. And my hair is long enough now for me to trim alone. Since when was air drying bad? I remember my short stint as a natural I didn't like air drying because of shrinkage and tangles but seriously? Every time water hits my head I have to use heat? No way. Guess this was just a rant.