Beautytalk69
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Honestly, I don't know where to begin. My mom has always been full of uncorrect information. Example, hair grease is a mosturizer, the only way your hair will grow is if you hot comb it..ect. She is the main reason my hair never retained length as a child and the reason why my niece's hair is the same length it was when she was two (she is turning six). She has gracefully brainwashed my sister into believing her way is the right way. My sister has been natural for about 3 years and I have been natural for 10 months and my hair longer than hers. Everytime I try to give her advice she hits me with the "well mama said". Any way that is the tip of this rant
I'm also my mom's hairdresser. I do her relaxers, dyes and wash and sets BUT on her terms. When I tell her she needs to do protein treatments and deep conditioner..she looks at me like I'm Forest Gump or something.
She doesn't care about anything but hair dye..as long as her hair is black as hell she doesn't care. Like today. We are trying a semi permant dye in her hair for the first time. So I put the dye in and let it set for 25 mins like the bottle said. She told me make sure you don't wash it clean..let some of it just stay in..I was like whatever. The dye didn't take all the way..so she made me put more in, and make it stay in for another 25 mins. I'm so tired of her being hard headed..and how she treats me like I know nothing..when I'm the only one in the family that knows how do hair..and I'm the only one who is actually making progress. No, it isn't down my back..but I am retaining length. I don't know if I should stop doing her hair..or what. Because I'm completely tired of all of this!
I'm also my mom's hairdresser. I do her relaxers, dyes and wash and sets BUT on her terms. When I tell her she needs to do protein treatments and deep conditioner..she looks at me like I'm Forest Gump or something.
She doesn't care about anything but hair dye..as long as her hair is black as hell she doesn't care. Like today. We are trying a semi permant dye in her hair for the first time. So I put the dye in and let it set for 25 mins like the bottle said. She told me make sure you don't wash it clean..let some of it just stay in..I was like whatever. The dye didn't take all the way..so she made me put more in, and make it stay in for another 25 mins. I'm so tired of her being hard headed..and how she treats me like I know nothing..when I'm the only one in the family that knows how do hair..and I'm the only one who is actually making progress. No, it isn't down my back..but I am retaining length. I don't know if I should stop doing her hair..or what. Because I'm completely tired of all of this!