tmhuggiebear
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And I don't. Major shocker! There was a point in my life when I wanted a big wedding with all the glitz and glamour. However, for the past few years I've been leaning more towards a very intimate ceremony with just me and him in Tobago thanks to writing for so many bridal magazines over the years. What could be more romantic than the two of us running of to do our thing?
Plus I feel like the reciting of vows is a very intimate and private moment. I don't necessarily feel like professing my love to someone in front of a crowd. I figured we could always come back to the states and have a party/reception here with everyone invited.
Of course my fiance, hates the idea and wants a big celebration with all our friends and family there. His exact words was that he always dreamed of having a best man and groomsmen and he doesn't want to miss out on that. Go figure!
So for now, we are going with his idea. We're still planning on a destination wedding in Tobago though. Hopefully, he will see things my way in time. I'm hoping the cost will scare him away! We'll see though...
I guess that whole compromising thing starts early!![Yep :yep: :yep:](/smilies/yep.gif)
Plus I feel like the reciting of vows is a very intimate and private moment. I don't necessarily feel like professing my love to someone in front of a crowd. I figured we could always come back to the states and have a party/reception here with everyone invited.
Of course my fiance, hates the idea and wants a big celebration with all our friends and family there. His exact words was that he always dreamed of having a best man and groomsmen and he doesn't want to miss out on that. Go figure!
So for now, we are going with his idea. We're still planning on a destination wedding in Tobago though. Hopefully, he will see things my way in time. I'm hoping the cost will scare him away! We'll see though...
I guess that whole compromising thing starts early!
![Yep :yep: :yep:](/smilies/yep.gif)
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