My coworkers ganged up on me about my hair

[caribeandiva]

yes i'm 9 weeks post but geez they didn't have to come up to me and tell me what's wrong with my hair and what i need to do to fix it. mind you it was the wrong advice (i should be relaxer every 4 weeks cause of my thick hair, stop washing so much, etc...). then as if that wasn't bad enough they actually used my edges as a demonstration of how to properly apply relaxers and they offered to do it for me next time. AS IF!!

 

[PeopleTalkDaily]

I hate when people do that..
Mind yo bizness...

 

[shunta]

Ooh the nerve of those heffas! Sorry, but that makes me angry. How dare them! Girl, you keep stretching your relaxers and tell them to mind their own business. How does their hair look? Probably a hot mess!

 

[Eiano]

When people tell me crap like that "Girl... u need to stop wearing braids!" I quietly nod and smile...
When I take out my hair and it falls down my back, they don't say nathan!

 

[~*~ShopAholic~*~]

LOL @ the title of this thread. They'll be ooing and aahing no time soon just hang in there w/what has been working for you and your hair.

 

[yourleoqueen]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

 

[shunta]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

Lol!!

 

[Aveena]

(i should be relaxer every 4 weeks cause of my thick hair, stop washing so much, etc...). then as if that wasn't bad enough they actually used my edges as a demonstration of how to properly apply relaxers and they offered to do it for me next time. AS IF!!

Well, when you finally do touch up take comfort in seeing your results. You can do a lot of terrible things to your hair to make it look good for a day. Lasting results take time and sacrifice. Hang in there!!

 

[caribeandiva]

Ooh the nerve of those heffas! Sorry, but that makes me angry. How dare them! Girl, you keep stretching your relaxers and tell them to mind their own business. How does their hair look? Probably a hot mess!

yep! been the same length since i've been working there (4 years). her hair looks like my "before" pictures. the other one's hair is less bad but not by much. she thinks she's an expert cause her sister does her hair regularly. oh and she told me that conditioners are for white people only.

 

[hopeful]

I'm sorry that happened to you, that was really mean of them...and bold! Keep your head up girl, next year this time you'll be getting the last laugh.

 

[myco]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

LMAO!

People have some nerve.

 

[victorious]

yep! been the same length since i've been working there (4 years). her hair looks like my "before" pictures. the other one's hair is less bad but not by much. she thinks she's an expert cause her sister does her hair regularly. oh and she told me that conditioners are for white people only.

Someone needs to pound some sense into her.

 

[shunta]

yep! been the same length since i've been working there (4 years). her hair looks like my "before" pictures. the other one's hair is less bad but not by much. she thinks she's an expert cause her sister does her hair regularly. oh and she told me that conditioners are for white people only.

Im shaking my head right now. Give them a LHCF card

 

[MissYocairis]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

*LMAO!* What she said!

 

[sareca]

Ooh the nerve of those heffas! Sorry, but that makes me angry. How dare them! Girl, you keep stretching your relaxers and tell them to mind their own business. How does their hair look? Probably a hot mess!

ITA! Them ***** betta have WL hair if they're all in your business.

 

[BabyImaStarr]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

 

[chocolatesis]

That was mean of them. But the sad thing is that they probably did think they were helping you. I just started stretching my relaxers, and it's worth it! You just have to soften up your NG probably to prevent breakage. Stick to your program and not only will you be like but your co-workes will be like.

 

[ms.gafeney]

gurl, just keep doing what you are doing and then get ready for the next round, because when your hair is down your back, they will really get to hatin' then!

 

[locabouthair]

That was mean of them. But the sad thing is that they probably did think they were helping you. I just started stretching my relaxers, and it's worth it! You just have to soften up your NG probably to prevent breakage. Stick to your program and not only will you be like but your co-workes will be like.

sorry to hijack the thread but how long are you stretching and what results have you gotten from it?

back the original topic. just ignore them i know it's hard. i've been there and i'll probably hear some crap from other people too. but the results will be sooooo worth it. that's why i don't tell people about my hair. when my friend found out i was using s curl she gave me this BIG lecture.

 

[Dannygirl]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

ohmysnapaholathank ya jesus hollalooyaaa!

 

[chocolatesis]

sorry to hijack the thread but how long are you stretching and what results have you gotten from it?

back the original topic. just ignore them i know it's hard. i've been there and i'll probably hear some crap from other people too. but the results will be sooooo worth it. that's why i don't tell people about my hair. when my friend found out i was using s curl she gave me this BIG lecture.

My last two touchups I streched for 10 wks, not much for some LHCFers but it was for me. There was much more NG to work with. I wasn't as scared that I would overlap, although, I was still careful. I wan't to try to make it to 12 wks next time.

 

[SilkyandSmooth]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

To the OP, what you do with your hair is none of their business. I bet their hair is jacked up.

 

[~*~ShopAholic~*~]

girl you are too much.

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

 

[Halana Malie]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

Wow

 

[Halana Malie]

Just ignore them.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

This is my personal favorite!

 

[buttaflye03]

What pisses me off is that they spoke to you a s if you didn't know how to care for your own hair and then to use your edges for a demo? WTF? Get your hands off of my hair! I do not like people touching my hair.

 

[tenderheaded]

So now we have people policing our personal choices I have a co-worker who wears her pants so tight that all her crater-like butt dimples are visible - and I do mean ALL! Should I get up in her face? What about people who have dreads, locs, or TWA - do we need to whip them into shape?
These women have too much time on their hands. The clothes closet and soup kitchen are looking for volunteers. Tell them to get busy with that

 

[gymfreak336]

Tell them heffas to kick rocks. When your hair starts to surpass them in length, shine, overall health then you can start demonstrating your conditioning techniques on their parched ends

 

[Chinagem]

Next time that happens, say one of these;

"Ya'll giving out hair advice? What next diet tips from a bunch of fat chicks?"

"I rebuke you in the name of Jesus and healthy hair."

and my personal favorite

"Kiss my black ass! I will relax my hair when I get good and damn ready!"

Now you're talking.