I just started using Affirm (no-lye)relaxer. My first application was Sunday 5/16/04. With every relaxer I have used previously my hair was always hard & stiff even immediately after the relaxer. My hair is about two inches below shoulder. It was so stiff that when I put my head down, my hair would stick straight out in the back, no bounce, no movement, no swing. Because of that, I always wore my hair in a ponytail (24/7). After the Affirm relaxer on Sunday, for the first time in probably 10 years, my hair actually moves. I was so proud of my hair I didn't know how to act. I have worn my hair down this week. Everyone at work has been staring and commenting on how good my hair looks because in the 5 years I have been working here they have never seen anything but my daily ponytail and multitude of matching scrunchies. As you can tell, I will be using Affirm from now on.