spacetygrss
Well-Known Member
Woohoo! My first relationship post!
Anyhow, a colleague and friend of mine has been really down lately because she feels that she is getting older and has no marriage prospects in sight. She just moved here to Texas about 6 months ago from the SE, but has also lived on the west coast, southwest and midwest. Anyhow, she has had serious relationships in the past, but they didn't work out (some of these guys were straight trifling, even though they seemed good on the surface). Since she's been here, she's been on two dates since she moved here; no second date.
She is a smart, funny, attractive, athletic, professional woman. I personally can't see any obvious flaws and we've known each other for a long time (we both went to the same professional school in another state). She has even talked to some of her exes and asked them what was "wrong with her" (yeah, she went there). She is colorblind when it comes to dating so she's not "limiting" herself in that way.
She thinks that part of the problem is our location. She never had problems anywhere else that she has lived. We're in Dallas, which is pretty conservative compared to other parts of the country that we/she has lived so maybe there is something to it. I don't really know what to say since I'm married and am not looking for a relationship (although, I do get hit on here).
What do you all think? Is it really easier for [black] women to find love in certain areas of the country as compared to others? What have been your experiences.
Anyhow, a colleague and friend of mine has been really down lately because she feels that she is getting older and has no marriage prospects in sight. She just moved here to Texas about 6 months ago from the SE, but has also lived on the west coast, southwest and midwest. Anyhow, she has had serious relationships in the past, but they didn't work out (some of these guys were straight trifling, even though they seemed good on the surface). Since she's been here, she's been on two dates since she moved here; no second date.
She is a smart, funny, attractive, athletic, professional woman. I personally can't see any obvious flaws and we've known each other for a long time (we both went to the same professional school in another state). She has even talked to some of her exes and asked them what was "wrong with her" (yeah, she went there). She is colorblind when it comes to dating so she's not "limiting" herself in that way.
She thinks that part of the problem is our location. She never had problems anywhere else that she has lived. We're in Dallas, which is pretty conservative compared to other parts of the country that we/she has lived so maybe there is something to it. I don't really know what to say since I'm married and am not looking for a relationship (although, I do get hit on here).
What do you all think? Is it really easier for [black] women to find love in certain areas of the country as compared to others? What have been your experiences.