faithVA
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I did the MHM on DD13 Friday night. I wanted to do the CLCT but had ran out of ingredients and couldn't use the "carrot" one on her, lol!
It was the first time in years I had washed her hair loose and not in sections. I felt the baking soda/ conditioner step would soften it enough and it did. She kept saying, "Mom, isnt' my hair going to be tangled?" She couldn't believe I was washing it loose. We DC'ed and clay step and hair hair had less shrinkage and was soft. I was going to get braids put back in (she's had them for months) but she was able to see her own hair looked nice and I got mini twists put in with just her own hair instead.
This MHM journey is about me but also because I have 3 girls- 2 curlies (a 3c and a low-density 4a) and my 4c oldest. I would love for her to feel she doesn't have to keep her hair in braided extensions while her sisters rock wash n'go's, twist outs, etc. I plan to implement it on myself for a good while (probably at least 6 months) before I start it full force with her so I can identify setbacks, and learn as much as possible.
Its going to be interesting to follow your journey with each of them.