I'm not sure how to vote. Is this person being treated for the mental illness?
I have clinical depression. I'm being treated via therapy + meds. For the past year or so, it's been completely under control, so I don't think it affects my life in any particular way right now. My mood is stable, I'm fairly content, and I'm a productive member of society.
I would hate to think that someone wouldn't date me because they have some preconceived notion or stereotypes about mental illness. Besides that, I am a wonderful person.
You would still be a winner (date able) in my book. No homo intentions, just saying. You recognized something was not quite right and you have taken steps to get help. You are not the norm.
Despite the information that is out there, there is still a stigma about mental illness. Our folks in general tend to think there is something wrong with seeking help.
I remember when I was in therapy, my Momma told me not to divulge certain info to my therapist. I know what she meant and understood the meaning behind it, but what good is the therapy if I can't get all my feelings out.
With that said on the other side of the fence, I was in love with a gentleman that was not only mentally ill he was also a drug addict. This man was Baker Acted out of my house at least five times. He threatened to kill himself, cut himself and all kinds of stuff. He was extremely sick, but somehow when he got to the hospital, he was fine. They sent him home with meds once.
By the time me and his Mom were able to get him to agree to treatment, the **** at the mental health clinic was so rude and difficult, he ended up going off on her. She wanted to speak to him alone w/o his Mom but was rude and nasty about it. He said, " Of course I have drugs in my system. Let's go! I'mma about to go home and smoke me a joint!"
That was that.
Yes, it took me a long time to get away from him. When it came down to him or my kids, his ass had to go. There is so much that went on...I carry guilt til this day.
I still say it does not automatically bar someone from being able to date. I wouldn't because of my past experience, but it depends on their situation.