LivingDol1
Well-Known Member
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months. For the holidays, we are spending Christmas week apart in our own hometowns with our families.... But for the week of NYE, he is flying me out to his hometown. I'm very excited, but a little nervous. His parents are more relaxed than mine are. I'm staying with my boyfriend at his parents' house and we will be sharing his room. That would never happen in my parents' house!
The trip is going to be for a full week. So, it's not even like I'm just meeting them for dinner...! I've been googling for advice and I feel like I'm finding outdated information. Obviously, I'm not going to dress inappropriately or make out with my boyfriend on the living room couch. Aside from basic manners like offering to help do dishes and stuff, any other advice?
I don't know if I should bring them something? I will be landing in Portland at midnight and my boyfriend is picking me up. They will probably be sleeping when I arrive.
I've never met a boyfriend's parents before. He thinks it will be really easy for me to get along with them, so maybe I am overthinking. I just want to make the right impression without trying too hard or coming off as too relaxed either. And I want to be genuine.
Thanks, ladies!
The trip is going to be for a full week. So, it's not even like I'm just meeting them for dinner...! I've been googling for advice and I feel like I'm finding outdated information. Obviously, I'm not going to dress inappropriately or make out with my boyfriend on the living room couch. Aside from basic manners like offering to help do dishes and stuff, any other advice?
I don't know if I should bring them something? I will be landing in Portland at midnight and my boyfriend is picking me up. They will probably be sleeping when I arrive.
I've never met a boyfriend's parents before. He thinks it will be really easy for me to get along with them, so maybe I am overthinking. I just want to make the right impression without trying too hard or coming off as too relaxed either. And I want to be genuine.
Thanks, ladies!