I like to color but I have noticed that hubby likes me to be the aggressor A LOT! I have no issue with it sometimes but all the time NOT! He has this thing with feeling like I'm taking sex from him and it really gets to me. I don't have all night to entertain a man who is playing hard to get. Once I spark it he's off and running but it has gotten a bit annoying. My GF think I should be happy to just be coloring! LOL! I Know men like to feel desired, and this is the age of women, but I can do without a man constantly wanting to lay on his back and get served up!