nychaelasymone
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ever attended a pre-marital class with your S/O and you were not officially engaged?
ever attended a pre-marital class with your S/O and you were not officially engaged?
actually, my pastor encourages couples that are thinking about getting engaged to attend the 'Before You Say I Do' classes. He says that once the ring is bought and the plans are being made, people are just attending the class to check it off of their list. They aren't really going to call off the wedding based on revelations from the class. I agree with him. I know plenty of couples that just sat through pre-marital counseling classes, afraid to dig too deep b/c they didn't want to derail the train that had already left the station. Then, when the got married, they wished they had talked more in depth about some of the more serious subjects.
so, yes, couples that are courting (dating with the purpose of seeing if they are fit for marriage) do sometimes attend these classes.
Nope, this was in Maryland. I think that is really smart that you and your man went pre-engagement.(Scorpio, are you in Atlanta?).