Married Ladies: Did your relationship have a rocky or difficult start?

kweenameena

kweenameena

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Did your relationship start off rocky and then end up blissful?

And thru the difficulties, what convinced you that he was still The One?
 
There's a sticky that talks about this very thing. I'm on my phone and don't know how to post a link but go check the stickies. I'm single but iv3 gotten valuable advice from that thread in the past.
Eta: its called married ladies: what issues did you have in the early years of your marriage?
 
I'm not really talking about the married years. I'm mostly talking about the dating relationship. My bad for not making that clear in the OP
 
Dating was fine. He was very cordial and tried coming to my house every day. Dated about three months at which time he had to go out of town for work. That whole summer he called every day or every other day and sent me money lol. When he got back he was basically the same. We never argued until about a month later when he became aggressive in his marriage proposals bc I kept rejecting them. And I mean it was an everyday thing. Simple conversations evolved into yelling matches and slamming doors. Eventually I gave in and married him after my 18th bd. Then the arguing went into overdrive for a few years lol. Definitely 10 times worse than while dating. Now we're alright.
ETA What convinced me that he was the one? He was not stingy with money: bought me a car after three months, sent half to three quarters of his pay to me during the summer and added me to his bank account. He always worked as hard as he could even though he was in college and paid me lots of attention. Liked cats and shopping too :p
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UGQueen said:
getoffmylawn how long have u been married?
when did u start dating? do u guys have children?
sorry for all the questions just curious.
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Ive been married a little over ten years. Started dating Feb/March of 2002 and married in Oct. No kids.

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We had some difficulty when I first moved in with him. Our first ”big” fight was over Mardi gras beads. :look: :lachen: of course it was bigger than that. We moved pretty fast in our relationship, which was fun but also stressful for both of us. We have our little spats, but in general we are good. :yep:

I was convinced that he was the one because it just felt right. Things fell into place so easily (sometimes too easily :look:) even when I over thought things. Even when we fought he fought fair, didn't yell or curse, didn't hit below the belt. We are just very similar when it comes to certain things and I love that.
 
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Mine started off blissful, got rocky a few months later, then got blissful again. We've been up and down ever since. There is just ONE issue we have though but it's HUGE to me.

The way we debate an issue when we have one. He's so opinionated, so bullheaded, always has to be right about his views even though he denies it...If he's challenged and does not agree with you it gets ugly then the little issues turn into big ones....it gets old and tiresome.... Everything else is good with us.
 
I have heard that the second year is hard. Is this true? A few weeks ago we had a pretty rough patch. :lol: We fought/argued a little too much. I think we are over it now, but I didn't like it. We have both agreed that marriage for us isn't hard. A lot of people would tell us that it was hard and to hang in there. We joke about how easy it is for us.
 
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