saved06
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I'm currently in a relationship with SO we have been together for 4 years. I was raised in a single home, so I am not use to male authority. My SO and I are talking about marriage and trying to make sure we are on the same page. The issue came up about finances and sex. For the sex he doesn't want to use condoms because he said "they" put AIDS in condoms. And I said I guess we won't be having sex I'm am in no position to have a child, esp. while I'm accumulating 100,000's debt from medical school. But his response is when God allows it we will have a child, condoms or not. But something didn't sit right with that.
Also, I'm having issues of having to share my income because there are certain things I want to buy (like my hair products lol) and I don't want someone over me asking me about every single purchase. I do know that we become one is everything but that independent side of me keeps rising up. I'm praying for God to help me in this area because all I know is the strength of my Mom and how she held it down. I don't respond well to men telling me what to do And I'm afraid if I don't get help my marriage will be stress.
Any advice lol...I am just a mess right now
Also, I'm having issues of having to share my income because there are certain things I want to buy (like my hair products lol) and I don't want someone over me asking me about every single purchase. I do know that we become one is everything but that independent side of me keeps rising up. I'm praying for God to help me in this area because all I know is the strength of my Mom and how she held it down. I don't respond well to men telling me what to do And I'm afraid if I don't get help my marriage will be stress.
Any advice lol...I am just a mess right now